i am 20, and a girl.
I want everything to be smooth, and we are ready, tried the first time but i was to nervous, so we are going to try again.
Can you give me tips to relax and different things we can do?
2007-07-11 03:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by icurious 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
instead of saying it's going to happen tomorrow at 5' oclock in my apartment after dinner, just let it happen. As long as you are both prepared with condoms and birthcontrol you guys should be ok. But if you still want it to be super special set the mood. A nice dinner with candles and wine (I know your underage) but the setting also has a lot to do with it. If you are still nervous that may be a sign, the person you have sex with for the first time should be the ONE personal who can make you calm in any situation.
2007-07-11 03:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by kerriannsurratt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mood music, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly can help.
2007-07-11 13:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to realx and try not to think, only look into your man's eyes and know that you trust him adn that you love him
2007-07-11 10:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by megan_trigg2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just think of hem and you will be happy that this is want you guys are doing. so look at hem and think in your hard heed that you now you want it and go in you ******* room and say **** me man so hope it help..........
2007-07-11 10:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kaleigh Bujanowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bathe in only the finest oils
2007-07-11 10:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bee-och 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let it happen.
And use protection! :)
2007-07-11 10:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you madrried and you shouldn't be having sex if you are not married it is wrong
2007-07-11 12:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋