familyish problem?

Question

So i have a cousin who is downright mean. she'll send threatening emails to people like me because i know her as a cousin. but in public she is QUIET. which is why i'm saying this here and not to any person in real life who knows her. if i tell anyone they won't believe me and think i'm crazy. eventually everyone will turn on me saying that i'm mean, saying bad things about my cousin. did i mention, jane(just use that as her) never does anything by herself? she always has an accomplice who takes all the blame so she gets off clean, her reputation spotless. and here's what she did this time. she gave my email address to her little "friend" and her "friend" sent me an email that said something along the lines of hi! remember me? i'm ann(fake names here pple) i think ur nerdy, *, *, *, *, *, and mean. do not delete this message, it's of great importance 2 me. remember that time u wanted the swings but i didn't give them 2 you then you cried? i think ur a crybaby. rest in extra. plz wait

don't take this as insults! i want 2 b ur friend. end of email. is she serious? then the next day jane sends me an email that says "i told ann ur email address is that ok?" she OBVIOUSLY made up that email ann sent me with ann. they think i'm stupid. then ann sends me a seperate email from a different account because i spammed the message and the other email. this one says "it was all my fault. srry u didnt believe me. im telling the truth. i always do." well if she were telling the truth then how would she know i was blaming jane? meanwhile jand sends me a response to her email. "its not my fault! i mean i knew she was going 2 sent it but i never told her 2, she chose 2." oh really? and if jane knew ann was going to send that stupid little email then why didn't she make any move to stop ann? 3 words to describe her? ignorant, self-pity, and mean and snobby. that's 4 words? TOO BAD. did i mention her family is rich and she gets whatever(literally) she wants. input+what i should do plz!

Answer 1

just email back BLAH BLAH BLAH<

Answer 2

I think it's best best to tell your mom or dad first and show the email too. They might not go to her and get into a fight w/her parents per se but still they might tell you more appropriate advice since we don't know too much about your family life and stuff. At first they might say that its hard to believe but do try to convince them of why you would say things like that w/o any reason.

Hmm, as for the meanness please just ignore the emails since its only words just know that there are other people who love you and your cousin just might be jealous of you since you have something she doesn't

Answer 3

Sounds to me like yeah shes rich and gets everything she wants aside from the attention from the ppl she most wants it from she probably knows you're one to her and just feels this is her best way to lash out at you what she wants is a response she gets off on making other ppl miserable E-mail her back and tell her you don't know what shes talking about unless you already had words with her in that case tell her you cant stoup low enough to get to her level of immaturity and say I give you win lol that will piss her off more than anything else you could do shes just trying to get a rise out of you don't give her the satisfaction

Answer 4

Wow thats a lot of childish behavior, why dont you just take the high road, delete the message without reading it and act like you have no idea what they are talking about if they ask you about them, if you just ignore all this petty stuff they will soon stop because they will realize they are not getting to you. Seems to me like your cousin is seeking attention, dont give it to her. Start focusing on your friends and yourself and act like she doesnt even exist, trust me she will stop the childish harrasment and move on to someone else. She cant get under your skin if you dont allow her to. Hope this helps

Answer 5

this is too much reading but stop all the games and just get a new email address and email everyone telling them to not give it out. if its someone you dont know i wouldn't even read it. and as far as jane just say i think you are playing games with me so i am not reading any emails from you or others i don't know.

Answer 6

Ok, so what is the question. Your cousin is mean, and nobody will believe you because she is the quiet type around everyone. If you want everyone to know who she really is, than print out the email's, and give them to your parents, and show them what she is doing. You need to print out the emails you think are threatening, and give them to an adult and hopefully they will listen. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Since you won't be able to change the way people perceive Jane then you should just say something like "You don't know her the way I do" and leave it at that. And just ignore the e-mails and other cruel messages - if possible have them blocked so you don't receive them and if not, just don't open e-mails from anyone you don't know and trust. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 8

I'm sorry you have been dealing with this; however, the truth of the matter is that you really don't have to. It sounds annoying and immature, but you are not obligated to react to this behavior. This is her problem, not yours. Keep it that way. Easier said than done I know, but with practice this or any kind of petty behavior will not even phase you. You have better things to worry about. :)

Answer 9

Isn't there something on your computer that can stop you from getting e-mail you don't want?Keep all of them that you get from her.Show them to your parents,because you have proof.Ignore her.Don't answer her back.Or tell her to leave you alone or you'll show her parents what she's doing.Maybe her friend really thinks your cute.
Good Luck

Answer 10

If she is a long lost cousin that came out of the woodwork don't worry about her. She is just a waste of time and space

Answer 11

Go out drinking with her and slip a roofie in and watch her pass out. Let her wake up in the gutter alone and in Spain with no where to turn. You MUST fight fire with fire. There can be no respite for cruel emailers.