you think i leave him or wait for him?

Question

me and my bf have been 3 years together,we loved each other but i always gave him problems from my jealousy and i use 2 go out with guys and go clubbing and never cared about his feelings ...now after all that he decided to leave me but i ask him 2 forgive me but he didnt ..i know i was wrong when i treated him like this but deeply i love him and cant leave him ,i dont know what to do i promised him that i will do whatever he wants but he doesnt want me anymore ...i dont know how 2 show him that i want him back so plz help me ..thank u

Answer 1

sorry it sounds like you need to give him up and try again if you loved him you would think of his feeling .,... you said you didn't so it sounds like you only want him when you cant have him

Answer 2

I truly do'nt know what to tell you !!! I could be the type that would say,' Remember that saying "You never know what you have til it's gone" ?...? Well there y`a`' go' !!But I will say this !! I guess just for the sake of typing it !?!. "You should consider this a lesson learned the hard way !! & to move on !! & better luck nextime !!.."Sure both genders do & say silly stupid,crazy things at times !! So know you know better what NOT to do or say !! & it might be in your best intrest if you apply righteous ways or doings of things to your heart !! I hope you find solutions that work for you !!"R"r,r`r.r'r,r`.'-

Answer 3

Sorry but you reap what you sow. You didn't trust him yet you treated him like dirt and expect him to forgive you! In your dreams!!! You don't love him at all otherwise you wouldn't have behaved like this. You just can't accept that he left you before you had a chance to leave him. If he has got any sense he would not touch you with a barge pole.

Answer 4

if he leaves you there's nothing you can do, but if you will wait, time will make him realize you are worth keeping, now, if he doesnt come back, and he marries another, you can still love him, but you move on with your life,..you know what your faults are, realizing that makes you a mature person, accepting what you are makes you a better person..you don't have to feel pain though sometimes it is inevitable.. be happy always, and learn from your mistakes...maybe if you are really meant for each other, time will bring you back together..

Answer 5

walk away.
Way chase someone who doesn;t want you?
It makes you look foolish, pitiful, and he is probably making fun of you for it.

Have Pride!

Learn from your mistake so you don;t do it in future relationships. There will be more men out there. It sounds like you are very social. It shouldn't take you long.

But don't beg. Makes you look bad.

You said what you had to say... now it's time to walk away.

Answer 6

You need to let him go, get some serious therapy and DO NOT get into another relationship until you figure out what is wrong with YOU. Anyone who can act like you has some issues she needs to deal with. If you don't this will just happen again and again and again.......

Answer 7

You had your chance and you weren't mature enough to handle it. It seems to me that you love the concept of love more than you are capable of showing and receiving it. Leave this poor boy alone and grow up.

Answer 8

How can you say you loved him when you didn't care about his feelings? Let me guess - the truth is you need someone to boss around, but you also need someone to rough you up in the bed. One guy can't do both.

Answer 9

You can't make him want to be with you so leave and if he changes his mind and does want to be with you he will come get you. It sucks but it beats being in a relationship with someone who doesn't care for you or trust you.

Answer 10

You cant show him since you lost his trust. Looks like he finally got sick you treating him like dirt and has decided to move on. Good for him.