What do you think of getting married early?

Question

Are there any advantages or not ? And is it impact on our socity?

Answer 1

Early? Do you mean at a young age, early in the morning, or what?

Answer 2

i don't early is the correct word here since that would of been like a decade ago or so. How about do procrastinators even end up tieing the knot or do they keep procrastinating all their lives?so don't think early would be a problem in this situation or a bad idea and could leave a great excuse why someone might not want to invite lots of people and don't even have to mention to some if don't want to and can save huge for something more important than a prolonged wait!

Answer 3

Age has nothing to do with it. Maturity is what matters.
Not everybody who marries at 18 is doing it to have sex, not everybody who marries young will imediately have children, not everybody who has passed their twenties knows anything more than teenagers about life.
Getting married early gives you more time to develop a successful relationship, and it keeps you out of trouble. It's not a guarentee that it'll work, but if you're strong enough to make an early marriage work, you'll be set for the rest of your married life.
Also, getting married without being ready is what leads to divorce, not getting married young. They aren't the same thing.

Answer 4

What do you mean by early? A young age or early in the relationship?

Getting married young or early is generally a bad idea but can sometimes lead to a very lovely, long lasting marriage. Depends on the people involved.

Answer 5

I don't think age is as important as maturity. I have known 22 year olds who were mature and graduating from college who were completely ready to get married. I have known 35 year olds who were selfish, stubborn and not ready to share their life with someone and take on the compromise and sacrifice that marriage requires. There are obvious advantages to being younger parents. People having babies in their 40's aren't concerned that someday their children will only be in their 20's and perhaps taking care of them or dealing with their medical care. That's a lot to ask of them I think. When people wait to get married they sometimes get pregnant right away, rather than waiting 3 or 4 years. Those extra years allow for getting to know one another better and if it's not right, ending it before children come along.

Answer 6

I have been married 5 years but I met my husband when I was 15. We were married at 18, and really, I have to say I did not get into the trouble that my sisters and brothers have gotten into after they turned 15. I had a baby when I was 18, I am still in college at 23, but this is my last year though. I think the biggest disadvantage is the finances but if you are ambitious then you can overcome that. Also, be with someone you like, and can live with. Love them enough to forgive their shortcomings.

Answer 7

The bible urges people to marry after they have passed the bloom of youth or in other words not to get married when sexual impulses are high. I hope yr able to understand becasue we make the wrong mistakes when we are emotionally unstable. WE need to take matured decision only then we can see the pluses and minuses of the opposite sex.
Why bother about society in all these personal issues. Its your life and you've got to make it work right....

Answer 8

Early marriage=early divorce. I can't believe the number of young people on this site who are wanting to get married even before they finish school and can support themselves. They're more concerned with the type of engagement ring on their finger rather than how they're going to be paying the rent.

Answer 9

We had a baby when we were 18.
Got married at 20.
Had another baby at 21 and the last one at 25.
We're still together. It will be 6 years in September.
Advantages - having kids young so you are still young enough to get out and play with them and enjoy them more.
Impact on society - who cares. It is a personal decision between that couple. Their choice.

Answer 10

it depends on the person. me and my husband met in high school got engaged and married at 19 we've been together and married for 4 yrs now and love one another more each day most people say it's a bad idea but it just depends on the person and growing and maturing together is a good experience to me and we learn from one another. if you mean early in a relationship that too i think depends on how stongly you fell but i think you should take the time to throughly get to know the person first and be positive you're ready to get married and live together and find out all their habits that may bug you.

Answer 11

well, in eastern culture or some religion getting married early can avoid you from pre-marital sex, which is considered taboo and sinful.
pop culture, nowadays men with financial benefits look for young girl to marry (dunno why though).
some people would like to have children fast and they like the idea that when their kids grow up, they'll look like siblings instead of parent-children.

impact on society?
maybe the girls will have less advantage because getting married+have children means taking care of family 24/7 and don't have much time to educate herself.
also, the time will come when these young people and their young kids will grew old and thus old people will be the majority of the society (i forgot the term for that).

as for me, I never want to get married as young as in my 20s
the world has more in store for me,haha.