I am a guy and my best friend is a girl.. we are really great friends and have been for a couple years... we went to different schools for 9th grade but will be for 10th grade.. anyways.. we still talked every other day if not everyday... until a couple days ago i hadn't seen her in months.. we are taking driving school... BORING!! but the last couple days she has been really quiet and keeping to herself... NOT like her!! She is usually hyper beyond belief! Some ppl have told me its bcs she is starting to like me, others tell me to call her... while others say that she needs to adjust to having me back into her life.. i'm just not sure what i should do.. i want to call her, but i also wan't to give her space in case she needs it? Anyone have any ideas please? Thank you..
2007-07-11 01:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by 12345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just call her...she'll let you know if she doesn't want to talk
2007-07-11 01:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask how she is going. there sounds like there is something bothering her a little bit or big time. be there as her friend. But if there is more then friendship tell her but don't come on strong because you'll scare her away and i am sure you do not want that. If you think a little bit that you like her, hint to her that you do. if i think of anything else i'll write more, but i am tired and i'm off to bed
2007-07-11 08:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. If there is to be a relationship, let it develop slowly. If you call her, at this point it may put her off. Treat her as nicely as possible. She may however be reacting to some other stimulation. In this way, you don't get pushy, nor do you look foolish, if it is something else bothering her.
2007-07-11 08:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just call her n find out whats up. ask her if she needs space, if she does then give her space, cuz if u give her space without her needing it she might mistake it for u just not wanting to talk to her n stuff.
just talk to her n ask her whats up, n tell her u miss her. :-) lol
2007-07-11 08:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by JuLiA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call... and if she doesnt want to talk im sure she will let you know as soon as she finds out its you.....
2007-07-11 08:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~Can't Live Without You~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.
DO what you think is right, and if that leads you the wrong way.......atleast you learned something...it's all in your hands....if the advices fails,,,,,,,YOU are the one who will suffer the consequences:-)
2007-07-11 08:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by ramzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋