Is CHEATING forgivable or not forgivable for you...why???

Answer 1

I do not think cheating is forgivable. I personally would leave my husband on 3 counts: Cheating/physical abuse/Excessive drug-alcohol abuse without helping himself. When there are children in the scenerio it is difficult. Women tend to think that they should stay together for the children. What would this be teaching them? It is okay to tolerate this behaviour? Children do not know any better unless they are taught better. In the long run, trust takes years to build and can be lost in a minute. Even if you try to rebuild that trust it is never the same, always leaving doubts in the back of your head. Everyone has choices... Some people make the wrong ones. That is why you suffer consequences. Unfortunately cheating is not okay. Trust is lost and can never be fully regained. This also could be my point of view based on my mother leaving my father after being abused and cheated on her entire marriage. She taught me this is not tolerable nor acceptable. I hope to teach this to my children as well. I once again say "You cannot expect your children to know any better, until taught better." - I hope this helps.

Answer 2

I've been the cheater and I've been cheated on and my opinion is that there is usually a reason for people cheating. Whether or not it is forgivable is down to the particular circumstances of the couple. Also, define cheating. I cheated on one of my old boyfriends because I was angry with him. He left the country to go and work in USA indefinitely and only told me about 2 days before he was due to leave. The second time I cheated was on my first husband and it was because I was feeling trapped and I needed to feel free. In hindsight I'd say the first incident is forgivable but the second one isn't.

Plus, I'd define cheating as any form of intimacy with another person with the exception of kissing. I don't think it can be classed as cheating because you can have a brief moment of stupidity and it can only last a few seconds. It's not like you can 'briefly' or 'accidentally' suck someone's c0ck!

Answer 3

not forgivable. Look at it this way, if you were a top notch spy agency, say the CIA for the government and you hired and trained an espionage counter-intelligence spy to work for the USA, and the spy double-crossed and sold out to the KGB or Black September or Al Quaida he would have cheated on you as a government and as a country. If you allow cheating where does it end? You can't accept cheating because faithfulness is all we have. If you don't have any loyalty you should not stay committed. Break up first, be brave and be honest with enough moxi to stand up and say, "hey this is not working out for me. I want to move on. I am going to leave this scene." If you don't like it or you know the one you are telling won't like it, you are at least not doing any further or future harm to the integrity of your own word. Your word is all you have. Cheating is not forgivable.

Answer 4

No cheating is not forgivable at all as it breaks the trust in the relationship. It's 100% between us or not at all.

Answer 5

Forgivable if it's a man doing the cheating, If it's a woman no.





I"M KIDDING!!

Ok, in my opinion cheating is not a forgivable act, but sometimes love gives you the strength to grant a second chance and sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.

Answer 6

It's never forgivable to me.

I just got out of a bad 8 month relationship where there was a lot of cheating on both sides.

I think that once it's done there's never trust.

And that "once a cheater, always a cheater" saying isn't true. I would never dream of cheating on my new boyfriend. I'm never going down that road ever again!

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Answer 7

I will forgive anyone that cheats on me if they ask for forgiveness! BUT I WILL NEVER TRUST THEM AGAIN! Hope it helps

Answer 8

Not forgivable..Because if you forgive them they will think you are nice, easy, and stupid and do it again! If he cheats that means he obviously isn't into you anymore so let him go...Its probably going to be hard but you have to take care of your business...

Answer 9

is not forgivable cuz how come somebody do suh a thing like that and if someone would even cheat on me i would never forgive them

Answer 10

I do think in some situation i might actually forgive but tht doesnt mean ill forget..think theres always bound to have this distrust feeling at the back of ur mind...