I have this roommate who has a major addiction to masturbating. He sneaks off at night with my laptop and looks a porn sights and starts to masturbate, he does it like in the afternoons and nights. Sometimes he stays up late, waiting for me to sleep so that he can masturbate
I went to this site that showed a symptom chart of The Stages Excessive of Masturbation and he was in the addictive zone.
theres the link.
http://www.herballove.com/library/resource/overmas/stage.asp
What should i do to help him. He doesn't have time to go for counseling and he can't take any medications.
so, please help.
WHAT CAN WE DO TO STOP HIM FROM EXCESSIVELY MASTURBATING?
Please help my bud, I don't want any of my other friends or family to use my laptop and have a porno ad pop up on the screen and think im like a porno watcher thingy.
PLEASE HELP.
2007-07-10 20:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
think about the animals
i have a part-time job at the vet, im like, the best worker there, and if any of my co-works or anyone that knows them sees these porn related things or a smudge of sperm on my computer.
I'M FIRED
and that would be like a total downpour for my reputation.
2007-07-10 20:24:27 · update #1
PASSWORDS WILL NOT HELP, HE IS A TECH FREAK AND HE GETS PASS THOSE BUGS. and hanging out with my roommate is rare. he barely gets up to cook. he going out is like. me killing a dog. I LOVE DOGS.
2007-07-10 20:50:48 · update #2
THE GUY HAS THOUSANDS OF LAPTOPS AND DESKTOPS. I can't filter my computer. HE'LL GO THROUGH THE FILTER. I can't hide my computer, he would find it with his freakin high tech see through goggles. AND I'M NOT THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM.
i have strong feelings for my friend, I grew up with him and i don't want him to have health problems.
I NEED REASONABLE HELP FOR HIM.
Nothing that would have to do with my laptop or my life. I want him to stop.
AND NO GROSS THINGS LIKE "chop his verga off".
2007-07-11 07:53:08 · update #3
NEVER touch the private parts of your body except when going to the toilet or when washing them! Your genitals are dirty, nasty, evil, filthy parts of your body.
Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this good company. If the good company seems hesitant to have you along with them, be persistent. Just hang around with them no matter what. They will get use to you sooner or later.
If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will.
This can even lead to "mutual masturbation" for which you will surely go to hell! And I'm talking about mutual masturbation with the opposite sex. If you practice it with the same sex, you have even bigger problems than just masturbating. Especially if you like it.
You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be taken OUT OF YOUR MIND for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things.
If any of your present friends have pimples, yellow teeth, runny noses or excessive ear wax, avoid them like the measles!
When you bathe, never, never, never admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress. Take icy cold showers so you won't want to stay in the shower very long. Dry your private parts VERY VERY QUICKLY, AND THEN GET OUT OF THE BATHROOM into a room where you will have some member of your family present. ALWAYS leave the bathroom door OPEN!
When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. Wear several layers of pants and put each layer on BACKWARDS so that there is no opening for you to access your private parts. By the time you start to remove protective clothing you wll have sufficiently controlled your thinking so that the temptation will leave you.
Remember, your mother isn't stupid. When she washes your clothes and bedding, don't think she doesn't notice those stains on the sheets or how one sock is stuck together on the inside and the other one is not.
And if you don't have a cold 365 days a year, how will you explain the constant pile of dirty tissues in the wastebasket and on the floor?
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If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. Better to be fat than to go to Hell!
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT EVER use mayonnaise on your sandwich. It will trigger thoughts of other things which you must avoid thinking about. If you are a female, stay away from the hot dogs, carrots, cucumbers and Italian sausage! And girls, NEVER put a candle on the table and light it, pretending you have class. Candles are used for only one purpose and you know what that is!
The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
Never read pornographic material. Stay away from the Old Testament stories about King David! Never read about your problem. Keep it out of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." Get rid of any magazines like Playboy or Playgirl or, if you are a gay male, Boy's Life.
2007-07-11 05:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Chase 2 · 7⤊ 11⤋
I Masturbated From Age 13 Until Age 29 On January 18,1995 At Age 29 I Replaced It With Antique Shopping. I Fought Masturbation For 20 Years Many Years Ago. I Will Give Up Masturbation In The Bathroom At Home.
2015-05-11 12:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dellie Goose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 14:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-15 00:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't help him if he does not help himself. I suggest you ask advise from your co-workers or friends. At least they would know what is really going on and they would not be surprised if they indeed find these porn sites in your laptop. Lock your laptop in your cabinet or SAFE! If nothing seems to work, share the laptop. In Windows XP, you can create another account for yourself. Better yet buy a new laptop and basically give him your old one. An addiction is quite difficult to cure if there is no support or someone to guide the person.
2007-07-10 21:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-25 04:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this is bad . your going to have to take drastic measures.keep you laptop locked up get a solid briefcase and get a lock with a combination on it. if that lock doesnt work he's breaking into you stuff to watch porn tell him he's going to get kicked out if he doesnt stop and seriously start looking for another roommate makes sure that he knows about it. your also going to have to delete all internet and browsing history, cookie and all that type of stuff
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2016-06-20 09:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by tawanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First admit it's you the one w/ the problem, buy him a laptop for himself! He's the one who should be asking for help!
2007-07-11 02:30:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋