So my boyfriend and I were messing around and he reached down in my pants and started fingering me.
He only used one fingure. It didnt hurt but I could feel it was tight. Next time will 2 fingers fit. Once before I tried to fit 2 fingers b4 but it hurt like heck and I couldnt even get the second one in.
I was sooo embaressed because he could only use one finger.
Is that unattractive in anyway?
How could I kinda stretch it out so more can fit?
2007-07-10 18:46:24 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle F 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Since you are asking with maturity I will also answer in that same fashion...
Part of it depends on your age, if youre still a teenager you might just want to wait a couple of years. However, if you are older, it might just be that you werent as "in the mood" And im sure that if hes really worth it he will understand and not find it unattractive.
2007-07-10 18:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Getting aroused naturally makes the vagina expand. And it also naturally lubricates it. Tell him to rub a bit beforehand IF you absolutely have to get fingered. I'd recommend a more original intimate moment such as KISSING or something, but whatever floats your boat. You can also buy lubricants over the counter at CVS or something. JUST MAKE SURE YOU DONT HURT YOURSELF
2007-07-10 18:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
most guys like it "tight"--it's says that you've not been with a lotta other guys. BUT it does sound like you're probably young and inexperienced--so be sure that this is what YOU want. After you've considered all that, and still want to go for it. Try using a sex toy for a while it'll relax you and um...help, err "stretch" you...
2007-07-10 18:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
problematic stuff. look using bing and yahoo. just that might help!
2014-12-03 19:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think the tighter the better so don't go stretching it out on your own.
2007-07-11 05:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably excited him because you were so tight.....don't worry about it...you will stretch out some once the two of you actually start having sex
2007-07-14 15:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by amaya7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys typically like it tight like that down there. Have you ever had sex? If not, that's probably why it's like that. Nothing to be embarassed about.
2007-07-10 18:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Most guys like tight women. (it will strtch eventually, enjoy it this way while you can)
2007-07-11 02:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not unattractive at all...a tight one always feels better
2007-07-10 18:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that the FBI may come knocking.
2007-07-10 18:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋