My friend baby is a caouple months old. Now she's pregnant with her second child. She just turned 17. I know I am waiting to have sex, just because i dont want to become pregnant. My sister is 24 and have 3 kids.
2007-07-10 18:40:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Good for you, I applaud your decision!
On your friend:
~Worse than ridiculous.. I feel for the kids who are being raised by a mere child.
I see and counsel others like her; it makes me sad. Children of teens have so many problems b/c the teens are not mature enough to deal with another life and the complex emotional psyche of a child not to mention the tough demands of motherhood...these teen girls miss out (or don't miss out which is worse) and their children suffer for it.........
............in an age of birth control this is just not right!
2007-07-10 18:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
That is really stupid that she is that young and pregnant w/ her 2nd baby. If her baby is only a couple of months old, she probably thought she couldn't get pregnant so soon after having a baby, but you can and it happened to her. She will have no life whatsoever until those kids are able to take care of themselves. You are smart for waiting to have sex. I'm 21 and the only girl of my family that wasn't a "teen mom". I'm quite proud of it. I'm almost done with college and when I do have kids, I will be financially and mentally ready for it. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, but we use protection because I'm not ready to have a kid. There are things I want to do in life before I bring a baby into this world and can't do much of anything. lol.
2007-07-10 18:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Andolicious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where does she get the money to support those kids?! damn! im 18, and having a kid and having sex is a big "No-No" for me! ive been offered one too many times to have sex but i refused every single time..if i were you, i wouldnt do that until i have a finished school and have a stable job..life`s tough, doesnt she know that?! its even tougher when you have a kid! tell her not to think of her own pleasure and do the right thing for the kid`s sake!
2007-07-10 18:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in this day and age yes. Back in the 1900s, it was normal for girls to be married at 15 and a mother by 17.
different times, different ages.
2007-07-10 18:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lighthouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..... It isn't good but things happen for a reason I believe. I just could imagine being so young with children. I think it's best to wait till one is married and older before having children but things happen.
2007-07-10 18:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 and have no kids. I just learn not to judge others and their situation. It's good you have enough sense to wait, others don't have the same upbringing and teachings like you received.
2007-07-10 18:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It´s not ridiculous rather sad, the girl your are talking of needs help from her friends and relatives and strength for herself to handle everything.
2007-07-10 19:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,that is pretty bad! When she gives birth to child #2, maybe someone should talk to her about getting her tubes tied.
2007-07-10 18:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by kittysoma27 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2007-07-10 18:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. i'm 19 w/ no kids and i would never have kids that early because it is really hard to go through college with kids.
2007-07-10 18:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by The 8th Deadly Sin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋