what age should i consider or have sex???

Question

Like me and my bf are totally ready but we dont want to rush it... you know..

Answer 1

If you start a sentence with like, then you are too young to be having sex.

Answer 2

Whenever you feel as though you are ready physically and mentally. Sex isn't all aboust the physical part, it has a lot of emotions tied into it. And sometimes if a girl rushes into sex to quick and isn't ready it raises her chances of getting HPV. So wait until you are with a person that you love and know for sure that you trust them with all your heart. Know that yall are both ready to take that step. That one step that may not seem like much, can change everything in your relationship. Not saying that he is going to leave you after getting some, but if yall started having problems afterwards you would wonder. So just make sure this is what yall BOTH want and yall are BOTH ready. Make sure to get on some type of birth control too, and still use a condom. Because the pill doesn't protect against STDs and they are alot of them out there these days! You may also want to talk to a trusted adult or someone. They can probably help you out more than you know. I hope this helped you!

Answer 3

For most people having sex while in a relatioship is always
something natural. I'm the conservative type, and I would
say you should wait until you're 100% sure of what you're
going to do.

You have to know that if you decide to be with him and then
you two break up, then you would have lost something you
can't get back. And also, that if you're a really emotioanl
person, you might end up really hurt after you two break up.

Make sure he's the right one.

If you decide to be with him, i have one thing to say...
Safe sex, use protection.

Answer 4

You don't need to have sex just because! Wait until you are mature enough to know when. It's ok to want to do it but not do it. If you do rush it could ruin your relationship. When and IF you decide make sure you are on the pill and use protection for safe sex. Condoms are not 100% safe and can break or come off.

Answer 5

Are you ready to be a mother? Are you ready to give up life as you know it to take care of a child?
These are questions you need to ask before you jump into bed with a boy.
Condoms break...Birth Control pills are not always reliable...etc...

Ready, TRULY ready, is when you can feel good about the possibility of becoming a mother.

Answer 6

first, how old are you?
second dont do anything you might regret in a couple years.
Take your time and remember that sex is not just the 5 minutes of pleasure but there are many other responsibilites that come along with it. Like dieseases or getting preganent. i know you might think that would never happen to me.. but it takes just 1 time to get pregaent and for your whole life to change!
So be careful and take your time, you have the rest of your life to have all the sex you want.

Answer 7

OK got to jump in here as a guy and lay it out for you honestly. Guys are sexually driven, PERIOD. Women are emotionally driven. This is psychologicaly proven over and over again. With that being stated you need to understand that when a man says he Love's you he is more likely than not misunderstanding the meaning of his words to you. To him love is his anxious desire of physical attraction while you may very well be considering him as a life mate his considerations may not be the same. Additionally, EVERY MAN is a hunter by nature and as such is at there most basic level more interested in the hunt than in the actual prey or in catching the prey. To that end think about some of the girls you know who have had sex with someone they were with whether a long term or short term relationship prior and ask yourself what percentage of them had their relationship end shortly after their decision to initiate in sexual conduct. The best advice I can give ANY WOMAN trying to advance a REAL RELATIONSHIP is not only to avoid sex completely prior to marriage but also to avoid sexual conduct altogether as much as possible as this keeps us men very much interested. More importantly any man who loses interest in you do to lack of your congruence to fulfill their wishes sexually you are certainly better off without. A lot of yound people misinterpret sex to be something which is fun in a way similiar to that of other types of sexual conduct and the fact is I found out that for me it absolutely was not, and I think the panel will agree with me here, it is generally speaking a much deeper emotional type of connection and is enjoyable on that level alone. This loses all credibility however when a man enters who is not really committed to an emotional relationship. BOTTOM LINE: It is ALWAYS BEST to make him wait for marriage, once he commits, as a man his sub-conscious is biomedically programmed to reinforce that decision on a conscious level, prior to legal commitment that shift never transpires in his subconscious and he is likely to leave the relationship altogether shortly after the sexual experience. PLEASE BE CAREFUL: these are defining moments you are talking about, and in a defining moment either you define them, or they define you, you are making a decision you have to live with for the rest of your life. I hope this helps

Answer 8

At the age when you don't have to ask people if you're ready...then you're ready.

I suggest you research the topic and the possibilites.

And for God's sake, do not reproduce until you can write a sentence without incorrectly using the word 'like'

Answer 9

When you're married or engaged. There is no set age, but you need to really think about who you're losing it, too. If you're under 18, you will most likely not marry the guy you're with. As it's been said before, if you're asking, you're not ready. Only YOU and YOU alone will know when YOU are ready. No one can tell you.

Answer 10

You should not have sex until you have found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. You should be willing to deal with an accidental pregnancy as no birth control is 100% effective. This is something that you have to discuss with your partner before you ever even think of having sex. If you have not discussed pregnancy then you should not have sex.