my appointment is on thursday but i dont feel very comfortable even going and i kno that many illegal abortions result in death or sickness.i wonder if theyll talk to me once i get there since im the patient but i know nothing about abortion clinics
2007-07-10 16:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by sks 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have counseled girls in your situation and I must tell you- look up your nearest pregnancy help clinic. Believe me an abortion clinic will not tell you everything you want to know. I can understand how hard it must be to be your age- and pregnant- but there is a better way then abortion- look into adoption. I am adopted and have 2 adopted children myself and we are all very thankful that our birth moms chose life for us. An abortion, even when done in a relatively safe place, can cause many problems for you- both physically, emotionally and spiritually.
1- torn uterus
2- miscarriages later, and/or not even being able to get pregnant when you are ready
3- bleeding that may need hospitalization
4- infections that don't heal without long term treatment
You will never forget aborting your baby- you can experience, sadness, guilt and shame-
sweetheart- I have a 15 year old daughter- and if she came to me and told me she was pregnant- I would support her, and love her- and help her find a couple that have been waiting a long time to adopt. I do not believe in sex before marriage, but I do believe in life for the child that is conceived.
Hang in there- if you can email me- I would love to talk more
2007-07-10 16:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Under federal law, no clinic can preform an abortion on someone younger than 16 without parent consent.
Just talk to your parents, I know it will be scary but in the long run it will be worth it. Then you will have time to think about it and not feel pressured.
Even legal abortions lead to sickness and death in women. Especially ovarian and breast cancer. It also lowers your chances at getting pregnant again later in life. There are many alternatives to abortions that can be very beneficial to you.
If you want to talk my sn is jessicaFROMmacon.
Hope that helps hon!
2007-07-10 16:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica H 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Abortion is criminal right here (upstate manhattan). We did no longer get information in school concerning abortion yet did get information on contraceptives, abstinence and such. information on the thank you to dodge a being pregnant yet no longer something on what you're able to do if one happens. We even have been shown photos of gonnorhea, syphilis, and different STDs to place us off from having intercourse (I dont think of it worked for dissimilar youngsters). whilst we've been approximately thirteen or 14 we've been shown "The Miracle of existence" in wellbeing type which shows a woman giving start to a infant. We didnt could desire to observe it if we didnt pick to and the majority didnt so notwithstanding they have been attempting to coach, I dont think of it have been given by way of. in my opinion, i'm anti-abortion in maximum circumstances. each and every so often, i've got faith that its great to have that selection inspite of the incontrovertible fact that (which includes threatening the existence of the mummy, rape, etc). i'm very very against utilising abortion as considered one of those start administration inspite of the incontrovertible fact that. Thats purely incorrect. I dont think of abortion could desire to be one hundred% unlawful because of the fact there are those few circumstances the place there isnt truly yet another selection even inspite of the incontrovertible fact that thats very unhappy. I truly have 2 eye-catching babies and could by no ability have an abortion whether i became raped, yet whilst i in my opinion didnt pick yet another infant and that i became pregnant, i could undertake the child out. No sense in killing an harmless infant whilst somebody who needs one so undesirable can like it unconditionally. I agree that what a woman does along with her physique is her enterprise yet abortion isnt rather much her physique, its additionally a infant's physique. If a infant became born and the mummy dumped it someplace or killed it, she could be in difficulty. Why could desire to or no longer this is any diverse for an unborn infant? An unborn infant remains a infant in my opinion, no rely if or no longer they have taken their first breath or no longer. For the individuals who say its her physique and her infant and he or she will do what she pleases, what youre technically asserting is that a mom who kills a infant thats been born shouldn't get in difficulty because of the fact its her infant. deliver on the thumbs down yet thats my opinion. you are able to disagree in case you like yet that wont exchange the way i think of.
2016-10-01 08:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope for your sake and for the sake of the unborn child you are carrying that you give this major decision very careful consideration before going through with it. Life is so precious, please don't make the quick decision to throw it away as if it is garbage. I mean this with all respect and hope that somehow your conscience, or some divine intervention, will cause you to use your heart and compassion to arrive at a heartfelt and wise decision. This is the type of decision that you make alone, just like the act of conceiving the child was made by you, not by others influence. So please don't allow others to cause you or force you to do something that you are ultimately responsible for deciding. The consequences are yours to bare, not others. Please choose wisely! I will pray for you, honey!
2007-07-10 16:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by TDZ 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Please... if you don't want an abortion NO ONE can force you. I am pretty sure your own parents might not even be able to! Don't do it if you don't want to. Tell you boyfriend that you aren't comfertable with it and aren't going to go through with it. Then talk to your parents.
2007-07-10 16:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She can't make you do anything. She is no relation to you at all. If you don't want to get abortion don't! It's your body your choice.
2007-07-10 16:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by inmybiz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are the MOTHER, NOBODY can make you get an abortion against your will, even your own parents. Why don't you fight for your child's life instead of let some old Biddie kill him/her off?
2007-07-10 16:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's ILLEGAL to force you into an abortion. ILLEGAL. If they force you to do it, CALL THE POLICE. IT IS ILLEGAL!
2007-07-10 16:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
you may be 15 but she can't tell you what to do you have a brain use it don't let them boss you around it is your choice
2007-07-10 16:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to. you should talk to your parents (if you can). No matter waht your parents say even its your body and your decision.
2007-07-10 16:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by shea 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋