I told my crush that i liked him...he responeded i dont know what to say. What is that supposed to mean?? I also really like him. I have liked him for 2 years. But I try and tell myself i dont like him since i guess from his responce he doesnt like me. What should i do?
2007-07-10 12:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
But i did give him time i gave him 3 months. He acted cool and asked me if i wanted him to forget it or remember. i said it forget it stupiedly because i didnt want to seem to forward like i wanted him to ask me out right then and there. Now im afraid im never going to see him again because we both graduated and go to different schools. But we still keep in touch once in a while.. (by the way i did give the guy some slack) i dont know what else to do.. Should i just go and like someone else this comming year if i find one or what??
2007-07-10 12:50:33 · update #1
u can do it...
2007-07-10 12:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by afghanpimp04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, give him some time for this to set in, at least a day. Sometimes, people don't even know they have feelings for some one until they realize that person has feelings for them. So, you could luck out here.
On the other hand, if you find out he doesn't like you, just hold dear those qualities that drew you to liking him and keep them in mind when looking for the real Mr. Right. And don't beat yourself up over it!!!
Either way, I bet you're an awesome catch! And if you keep your distance for a while (maybe a few days) he might come running to you asking what's up.
Believe me, I know what's it's like to really care about some one who doesn't share the same feelings in return. And I learned that some times it's more a matter of timing than anything else. And just b/c the timing may not be right, it doesn't mean he doesn't care. Even if he only cares about you as a freind, that's still a form of affection. Let time take it's course and try to move on in the meantime.
Lastly, sometimes looking your best can help you to feel your best. So dazzle yourself up if you know he'll be around, if only to catch his eye. Maybe then he'll start to see what he's really missing. And if not, you'll know you're a rocking hot person either way and some one else is sure to follow up on you!
2007-07-10 19:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mala13@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters "i dont know how to react" doesnt mean no. It usually means he isnt currently mentally equipped to deal with the situation and needs to retreat for reinforcements.
I mean you drop a bomb on him like that and expect an answer within 10 seconds or else he hate you. Cmon cut the guy some slack, he may of not even concidered a relationship possible up until now, ever thought of that.
2007-07-10 19:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well okay, by his response I don't think you should rule out the possibility that he might like you back. A lot of people need time to sort out their feelings and put them into words.. he may be surprised by the information and wants to remain neutral until he has had time to digest it all. Soon you should be able to tell whether or not those feelings are returned .. - wish you all the best!
2007-07-10 19:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart you did the right thing in telling him your feelings. He could be shocked that you felt that way and doesn't know how to react just give it some time and don't be too hopeful. Try not to jump to conclusions. Make sure whatever you do it guard you heart and don't let it completely occupy your time! Keep strong! :) Good Luck!
2007-07-10 19:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by luvneverfailsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like you or he was just really surprised to hear you say that to him.
See how he reacts to you now? Is he a little more shy around you? If so then he most likley likes you make.
If he seems to be avoiding you then the other was around.
2007-07-10 19:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by not_just_another_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a diff boy
2007-07-10 19:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by abbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋