I know a lot of girls go through the same thing. It obvious when guys talk to you... no matter what kind of clothing you wear they stare at them. I really hate feeling that guys only talk to me because I have large breasts (DD). I now find myself extremely fazed by it and I never give any guy a chance because I am so paranoid about it... Even when I do give a guy and chance and we go to the sexual level I hate when they spend alot of time on my boobs and make them stop focusing on that area. Guys, what can I do differently to stop attracting guys just wanting to ogle the goods? Girls, How do other women deal with it? Any suggestion on how to stop my paranoia?
2007-07-10 11:36:07 · 4 answers · asked by kareiche 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Unless they are being suggestive they mean no disrespect. This is coming from a guy. I love good conversation as much as sex (well, maybe not). But it is very very hard not to take a few glances at a woman with a beautiful figure...especially if he doesn't think he will see you again. If you are interested, talk to him. If he is interested in knowing more about you, you will know soon enough.
2007-07-10 12:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know if a guy likes you for YOU and not your breasts, talk to them.
Say "yeah, my breasts are bothering so much I'm going to get a breast reduction, to a B cup". Watch their reaction. If they look put off or disgusted they are talking to you for your boobs. If they sympathize, it could just be an act, but they might be sincere and worth talking to more.
When I was a J cup I had to deal with it all the time and I hated it. I also had back pain and other health issues so I got a breast reduction covered by insurance to a C cup and I'm much happier. People talk to ME and not my breasts.
2007-07-10 11:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like different things. some men like 'em small, some men like em big some like blonde some like brunette some like voluptuous some like skinny. if u had blonde hair would u dye it brown because u didnt want a guy to date u for ur hair. if ur skinny would u gain weight because u didnt want a guy to date u for ur body. if hes talking to u and taking u out and wanting to have sex with u its because u have what he likes and wants. why cant u see the positive in that? i mean i have a big a55 and my husband literally turns me around at the waist so he can get a better look at it. do u think i say," No, honey look at my face" hell naw. if he likes it then i love it. not every man likes DD's and not every woman has them. u need to celebrate what's unique about u. You cant even enjoy your breast sexually, thas crazy. You gotta think differently about your boobs. Because all men oogle women for all kindsa different reasons, some like legs, some have foot fetishes, the list goes on and on.
2007-07-10 11:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... I think you're crazy lol... I wish I had your problem, and so do most girls. Look every one has their plusses and minuses, some girls have big butts, some girls have long legs, some girls have pretty faces, one of your plusses just happens to be your boobs, so what. You should be proud of them and use them to your advantage hell I know I would.
2007-07-10 11:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋