and im afraid that my boyfriend wont be into me anymore if my boobs get any bigger. that might sound stupid but yeah i dont want that to happen and i dont know what to do. help me.
2007-07-10 10:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Sharon :):) 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Girl, you should be PROUD of your body!
Don't be ashamed of who you are...
If your bf looses intrest in you cuz of your boobs, it's his lost cuz you deserve the best!
Hope I helped and feel free to msg me any time!
<3 La Reina
2007-07-10 10:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by La Reina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi My daughters were a 32E-F and she was a very smal built, slim girl. She constantly had people make comments on them and wouldnt wear alot of clothes. She felt very self conscious in her bikini (she wore a t shirt over the top). She looked great really and her boyfriend said he didnt mind. We all thought they were great and she should show them off a little (she would never wear low cut tops). In the end she had a breast reduction. She is now a size 10B and feel they are a tiny bit too small. She is much more confident and happier with them. You know her boyfriend didnt mind either way - he said he just liked her as she was. Other make friends of hers were disappointed that she had them reduced. What is important is how you feel about them. Although my daughters were pretty awesome before she felt so bad about herself that she had the reduction. Can you try to see how you feel about them without thinking about how your boyfriend feels. You know - there are girls out there getting implants so they can look like yours! Love your boobs - buy tops that enhance them - nothing slutty - just buy tops that make you look good and enjoy having a great set of boobs. Show them off a little if you can. I think whatever guy is with you will be with you cos he likes YOU not becuase you have big or small boobs. Would he eve notice if they went up a size? Men notice things like they are big but really wouldnt notice a slow change in size
2016-05-18 22:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend had a 38DD when she was 9. and as for your boyfriend...hes a retard. that is just dumb. believe me, if you are only like 14 and you have a 38 DD, chances are you will not grow much more. so be happy that u have big boobs....i dont*pouts*i wish mine were that big girl!
2007-07-10 10:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend does not love you for who you are and what you look like, he is a jerk and totally not worth the time!
If you are having health issues like back pain, you could get a breast reduction in the future (after you turn 18) and it could be covered by insurance.
But like I said, if he doesn't love you anymore because of your breast size, he is totally not worth it.
2007-07-10 11:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's pretty big. I knew someone like that. It was causing her back pain, she had to make her breasts smaller. She made them a small C. Who knows maybe he likes them, maybe he doesn't talk to him. Tell him you have worries about the size and play it out of him. Hint around the question DON'T dial direct.
2007-07-10 10:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa!! wow!! but first of all you got to love yourself, baby girl before anybody else can love you and secondly, if he gets lets attracted to you because of that he's shallow and didnt love you for you in the first place. now when you get older and you want to look into getter them smaller for whatever reasons, then thats your decision but for now love who you are and use work those things to your adavantage.. . .wait your only 14 sorry :o)
2007-07-10 10:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem with your appearance he is not worth it. You will meet someone who likes the entire package. There is nothing wrong with you being big busted. Me and my daughters are and we are proud to be who we are.
2007-07-10 10:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by emtd65 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
f*ck him if he is not into you anymore, trust me others will enjoy it im pretty sure theirs more of you other then your boobs. keep your head up and good luck
2007-07-10 10:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mamushka♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not really anything you can do. Your size was predetermined before you were born.
(I doubt any guy would complain about a girlfriend with a large chest)
2007-07-10 10:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yup if he's not into you forget him and find someone appreciative.
2007-07-10 10:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋