My girlfriend refuses to take birth control even though she has a 3 month supply of pills. She is allergic to latex and hates condoms, but is also a nympho, she takes vitamins everyday, to be safe should i slip them into her bottle of pills so i don't have to worry about her becoming pregnant? It would ruin our lives and i can't take that chance.
2007-07-10 10:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by THE JERK 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You have two options: One is you can stop having sex with her, the second is you can get a vasectomy. You absolutely cannot give anyone any kind of medication without them being aware of it. Your situation sucks, but you still can't just force a person to take something they don't want to take.
I think that you need to talk to her and tell her that if you two are going to be having sex, she needs to be responsible too, and you can work out what method you want to try from there.
2007-07-10 10:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So, she's a health-conscious nympho? She can take vitamins for her health, be allergic to condoms and refuse to take birth control pills even though she's nymphomaniac (by who's definition, I might ask). I would say both of you need to exercise some restraint, (how would you like it if she slipped you some saltpeter???), and mature some before you wind up with a child or STD or both. Along with sex comes some responsibility for yourselves and each other. If she won't be responsible, the responsible thing for you to do is shove off and find another girlfriend.
2007-07-10 17:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by saurus3118 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you would deciever her by putting birth control pills into her vitamins? Nice guy. Aren't they a different color and size? How will you make sure she takes the right pills? Do you know that she has to take them EVERY DAY for them to be effective? And why would you do this against her will? Can't be much of a relationship there.
There are condoms that are not made of latex. Ask the pharmacist.
I would predict that this relationship will not last anyway. It is not based on mutual trust and respect.
2007-07-10 17:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not do that.
What I'd do is rethink the relationship.
If she wants sex, she needs to either take the pills (which I would NOT trust her to do), or find someone else to have sex without contraceptives with.
She could do the implant which lasts for a long time. If she does that, or says she will do it, I'd look for proof, somehow.
2007-07-10 18:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about not having sex? You CANNOT give her pills without her approval. What if she is allergic to them? Then what will you do?
2007-07-10 17:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just try talking to her and say that its something that she needs to do for her and you. you guys dont want to take the risk of becoming pregnant so explain to her everything that you are thinking, so she doesnt think youre just being a jerk or whatevert. talk it out and share your thoughts.
good luck
2007-07-10 17:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥jess♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about unprotected sex. And don't worry about unwanted babies, either. That's why we have welfare programs, foster homes, and juvie hall.
2007-07-10 18:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pills= no sex
2007-07-10 17:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋