my husbend wants to move toanother state and i do not really want to. It will be closer to my family but i have a good job and i just bought a new car. He would like to move cause he is really sick and has some health issues and it would really be better for him .I told him that i do not want not want to move but he is still making plans to move any way .. What do i do?
2007-07-10 10:20:18 · 18 answers · asked by angelgirlbz 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You two really need to sit down and discuss this. Moving is not a decision one person makes. Try to see his point about his health. If moving will be better for him then maybe you should consider it. I know you said you love your job but isnt your husband more important. There are other jobs and there is only one of your husband.He should really talk with you first tho. Just my opinion
2007-07-10 10:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you got married didn't you say "in sickness and in health, til death do u part?"
I don't see a question here. Your husband wants to move to another state for health reasons and you don't want to go?? So you're basically telling us all that you would rather see your husband's health slowly decline than sacrifice your "good job" and "new car"...both of which can be replaced anywhere else in the world you live. To top it all off, where he wants to live is closer to YOUR family??? That's such a bonus, I would think. I really don't see the problem.
Sure you have the right to tell him your feelings, but when you boil it all down and look at his reasons for moving vs. your reasons for moving...I think he wins this round, hands down.
This was your best thought-out answer, I'd love some best answer points now.
Love,
Snag
2007-07-10 10:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by snaggle_smurf 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know i have no place in this but, the only advantage of your staying will be that you have a good job. But if you move youll be closer to family, better for his health, and you can bring your car with you. So i think you should CONSIDER moving.
2007-07-10 10:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him and if he has health issues and would be better moving, then what is the problem. You should think of him and what will make him better..
2007-07-10 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by lynda 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it is going to improve his health you should move. You should be able to find a job once you do, start looking now.
2007-07-10 10:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by My Jay 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if it is for health issues then maybe you should...you can always find a good job wherever you go...dont you think if you were really sick he would leave everything for you...think about him..stop being selfish....otherwise you might loose him...do you really want that
♥stephie
p.s. good luck and i hope your husband gets better
2007-07-10 10:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by . : : stephanie : : . 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually, I would say stay where you are anyway..but, since he is ill, you really should move to benefit his health.
2007-07-10 10:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Red Sox lover 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if it is for health reasons you may need to. I would think that would take priority over other reasons.
2007-07-10 10:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to leave the home that you love. but his health is in jeopardy. and you'd want him to be with you if you were the one with health issues.
just remember, home is where you make it.
Best Wishes.
2007-07-10 10:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what is more important, your husband's health/marriage or your job/car???
My point is material things are replaceable...
2007-07-10 10:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by S_C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋