2007-07-10 10:17:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I only have a brother, I actually miss him a lot. We were very close in our twenties, then we both married and moved to different states. He always makes me laugh and never fails to still make me feel like his little sister!
2007-07-10 10:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes… I was severely abused by a sister, who used her skill and anger to devastate our whole family! I was told that I should forgive and forget because she's my sister. But she abused my kids too. I'm working through many issues, but I have learned to forgive her. I still refuse to be around her until she realizes her part in so much destruction.
I blamed myself for our children’s abuses. Eventually, I understood that I didn't recognize it as abuse. I grew up with it so it was normal. As a child, I was told that she was a good mother, and I believed it.
I really want to see her heal herself AND her children… but I'm Not holding my breath. When a person blames everyone else for his or her problems, healing is forsaken for the sake of being ‘Right.’
I made myself a promise that I would not stand idly by as my family punished and abused each other. I've seen and had enough! So I moved from California to Nebraska…. And I'm happier. And I get along with my other two sisters.
2007-07-10 11:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Eudora 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm particularly sorry you're affected by all this. once you get into counseling then you definately might desire to start to experience greater perfect. Brothers might nicely be such brats. I even have 2 and that they computer virus me too. you're dealing with ameliorations now. that's call teenager angst. Your hormones are raging and you will struggle with the aid of huge temper swings. you're great mushy to each thing and a great form of the time you will not understand why. i'm sorry your mum and dad won't supply up your brother's bullying. Your instructors shouldn't handle you like that. particularly in the event that they don't understand. Your counselor can talk along with your instructors. Ask him/her that might actually assist you clarify issues. till you have evidence that your mom is cheating do not assume that she is. and whether she is it quite is between your mum and dad. that's going to be as much as them to artwork it out. Staying on your room ought to be the basically right place for you for now till you get into counseling. Ask your mom in case you are able to beautify your room. perchance paint it and create a sparkling look. that could help you experience a splash greater perfect. carry in there hon. issues gets greater perfect I promise. right it quite is a hug.
2016-09-29 11:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by piekarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah...my mother was previously married (when she was 18) and had my half brother and sister. Then she caught her husband fooling around (this was during WW2) while they were living in Japan. (with the maid!) so she took my half brother and sister back to California, and my grandmother (her mother) insisted on raising the children as she thought my mother was too immature. My mother married again to my father when she was in her mid 30's and had me in 1962. My half brother lived with us for a while before and after he was in Vietnam, but I was never raised with my half sister. Anyway, I do NOT get along with either of them now. We do not talk anymore. My sister disowned me because of something I said that offended her- long story- I was only trying to explain something to her that happened to me, and she is very intolerant and that was that. My half brother doesn't speak to me either. Now my parents are both in their mid 80's and *I* am the one who does shopping, chores, and other stuff for my parents. My half bro and sis don't care at ALL about my father- they only care about our mother. My half bro is also executor of their will. (which makes me nervous.) I'm very resentful of the fact that they are not helping their own mother in her old age. Of course, there's a big age difference between us, but that shouldn't make any difference. I can't stand to talk, or be around either one of them because of the current drama.
2007-07-10 10:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My two brothers and I fought like cats and dogs when we were younger. We are all in our 20's now and still fight like cats and dogs. I love them to death but can only be around them for bits of time. Like a few hours sometimes. Sometimes a few days. It is really frustrating because some of my friends get along so well with their siblings. Not I. I would love to though.
2007-07-10 10:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by behappy9805 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know if I can stand him or not~ we don't see eachother all that often. He's my older brother, and lives maybe 45 minutes away, works like 60 hours a week. But he does try to criticize me alot, and sounds just like my father, which does drive me nuts. We have very short phone conversations.
2007-07-10 10:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister. She is a major crackhead that keeps promising my family that she is doing better. She has talked my mom into letting her move back home because she recently got kicked out by her husband. She has no job and no ambition. I seem to be the only one who can see what a rotten person that she has turned out to be, and every time I try to talk to my mom about her she gets mad and yells at me like I am the bad person! I feel like b***hslapping her ever time that I see her! Oh, and I forgot to mention that she recently got arrested!
2007-07-10 10:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Starr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Younger sister
2007-07-10 10:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only put up with my sister for a week or two at a time.
2007-07-10 10:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I have about a 1-2 hour limit.
2007-07-10 10:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by Two Dogs Trucking 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋