If I think im love him should I tell him??? PLEASE Help?

Question

If not when is the right time to tell him???
We’ve been seeing eachother for three months…hes already told me he thinks he loves me…but I haven’t told him yet. I feel like keeping it in is putting so much weight on my shoulders and when I am around him its hard to hold it in, but at the same time easy because I am scared he doesn’t want to hear it. The last thing I want to do is come across to strong and scare him off. He has already told me he thinks im too young to know what I want…hes 23 im 18. But unlike everyother 18 year old girl who says “well im not ur average 18 year old” I have proof. I am not gonna sit here and explain why I believe Im not ur average 18 year old. Cuz I don’t want to keep you reading. I just hope u will take my word for it. And if you need additional information just message me and I will fill you in. But I will tell you I am very inexperienced with love…

cuz like everyone else it’s a scary yet exciting feeling and no one has the exact answers whether they have answers for everything else or not.
But I do know my heart beats faster when I think of him, I feel my eyes pool up with tears when I think of never seeing him again or losing him. Just hearing his voice makes my day, his smile makes me weak in the knees, and I feel so safe and comfortable when im in his arms. I have the most fun when me and him just do what we both love and that’s sittin on our lazy butts watchin family guy, reno 911, and any other funny movie. I seem to lose my breath when he kisses me and I feel like I stepped into wonderland or something. So lame to be sayin it like that, but I have no idea how else to explain it.

Just a comment about the age and love thing.

Every year you change and your thoughts change...but if you truly love something and have a passion for it, then it doesnt change it just increases with your maturity. Unless you go through a situation that changes your entire view and perspective on it will it change. But everything in life impacts everything else in your life. So i say to those older people who sit there and say...I am totally different then i was when i was 18 "DUH"!! But it doesnt always necessarily mean that you go from one extreme to the next. So people stop being so close minded PLEASE

Answer 1

You have all this bottled up inside you.
Get some guts and tell him. He has already told you he loves you, so that takes off the pressure.
All that weight on your shoulders will suddenly be gone once you just come out with it.
You will feel so much better.

Answer 2

I remember saying the exact same thing as you when I was 18.That I wasnt like everyone else and I am experienced about love.Im 28 now and see now that there was a lot more to learn.But love is still love no matter what age you are and if this is what you feel then you need to get it out of your system.No matter what his reaction might be,dont take it back or have any regrets.Its OK to Love even if he's not the one.

Answer 3

First let me say you have a way with words that suggests you might have a career as a poet or a lyricist. Look in to that.Having said that , I would advise you to walk, no run as fast as you can to this guys house and tell him about your feelings for him .If he still thinks you are too young to know what you want, show him your letter (without anything to identify you) and ask him what he thinks of the writer's maturity.Incidentally,I believe you are very mature at 18.Besides what is he still doing with you if that is how he truly feels about the lousy 5years age difference. I think when you tell him of your feelings ,rather than scare him off, you are going to have one very ---make that two very young and happy people.I am in your corner cheering you both on.Please let me know how it turns out for you.Oh, by the way; as to your lack of experience, would it not be total utopia for you to discover and learn together as you grow as one.

Answer 4

Love is irrational so there is no exact science to it, but I think you should tell him. It's worth a shot. If you feel like you're ready, and your relationship has a future, take that risk. Dive in head first, but know that you very well may hit your head on the bottom of the pool. All i can say is you can tell if someone loves you, read the signs hes sending you, and if it seems like he feels the same way, tell him. If not, slow things down a bit, and wait for him to fall hopelessly in love with you. I'm sure he will.

Answer 5

wow.....it really does sound like you are in love. Just tell him, don't make it sound so strong, beacsue guys might not like clingy girls.