If homosexuality is not a choice, sex change is a choice, and if you're born straight, then what the hell does "bisexual" mean? Is it just another word for confused? If you liked girls and then chose to like men, are gay or bisexual, because you once liked girls? Same for women. If you are a lesbian who is married to a man, then you stop being a lesbian, like men again, are you a "used to be gay," or are you bisexual? It is very confusing all of the terms that gays and bisexuals use. If you were born liking girls, and then you like men, were you born "confused", born gay, or choose to be gay? That's where all the confusion began. God made it simple when he made Adam and Eve. It is not good for "MAN" to be alone, so I will make him a "WOMAN." So where does this "bisexuality" come from? Where exactly does "gay" come from? Is it something made up? And why would you be a man and then want to be a woman? Why would God make you "bicurious?" Are you bored of the opposite sex?
2007-07-10 09:56:15 · 10 answers · asked by hotboy 225 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why do gays and bisexuals make everything so complicated? If changing your sex is a decision, and bisexuality is a choice, isn't homosexuality a choice? Please people, stop the madness! Please! One more thing, is water wet?
2007-07-10 09:58:23 · update #1
none of it is a choice... Transgendered people have to change their outward sex in order to feel whole.
2007-07-10 10:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Boy, are you confused. But bisexual people arent...they know who they are, and who they're attracted to.
Bisexual isn't about liking men, then liking women, then going back to men; it's about being sexually attracted to people regardless of gender.
'sex change' is only a choice if you aso believe that having a harelip, clubfoot or other birth defect corrected is a choice; it's a medical treatment for a congenital condition. A man doesn't 'be a man and then want to be a woman', but a transsexual woman might LIVE as a man before seeking treatment (and vice versa for a transsexual man)
And 'gay' comes from the same place 'straight' comes from.
2007-07-10 17:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Arrogant Biggot-
You obviously are the one with the problem. These are not labels that we have put on ourselves...you str8 people have. We personally don't really care what people do.
As far as this being a choice...with that logic then you could be on the verge of having sex with another man. It's a choice right?...Uh..NO!!
I have been gay all my life. I have always known since I was able to understand life itself. Gay people have been around as long as you str8 people have. The reason that we aren't in the ''bible'' is because of hate and ignorance like you displayed.
Grow up....if you aren't gay...it's not your concern. Leave us alone, and allow us to live our lives that we all people are entitled.
Have a nice day
2007-07-10 17:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Oberon 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The story of Adam and Eve is based upon an ancient Mesopotamian creation story. The Jewish creation story was created in 500 BCE while the Jews were captive in Babylon to compete with their creation story. Gays and lesbians marry frequently because they either feel pressured by society or feel like they should try it. It doesn't mean they changed. It means they suppressed their true nature. I believe the sex drive whether one is homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual is inborn.
2007-07-10 17:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's even more confusing than that pal. I too have looked in the Bible and for the life of me I can't find where it says God made the first idiot or the first bigot. So, tell me what section you hang out in with your friends and I'll post that question there where people can answer authoratatively. I really want to know. Is it natural or a choice?
2007-07-10 17:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is a continuum. People don't choose to be gay, straight, bisexual, etc. They can't help who they're attracted to, nor should anyone make them feel like they can. Homosexual activity occurs even in animals, so it's obviously not something humans (or animals) just wake up and decide to try.
2007-07-10 17:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by jenni 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you straight? I'm going to be an *** and assume so.
How dare you come to this section and think you know what gay people go through?
The only people who change genders are those who feel they are in the wrong body. Gay =/= Trans gendered.
Bisexuality is a real orientation, how hard is it to accept that some people can feel love both genders? No one gets bored of the opposite sex as you so put it.
And my final question.
Would you want to change YOUR orientation?
2007-07-10 17:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Azu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if God wanted you to be gay he would have made it so that you could crap baby's out of your as*. And just because something feels good doesn't make it right. I dont think he is being bigot either. He just has his own opinoin on this subject. He has a right to. Not everyone has to agree on homosexuality. If someone thinks its wrong and thats just what they think you can't change it. It's okay to stand up to things you don't agree with. And transgender is a choice. They decide to go to a doctor and ask them to give them the operation. They change something about thereselves that they dont need to change. Some people may feel like they need to be prettier than they look on the outside so they get plastic sugery but that doesn't mean that wasn't a choice. And if gays get married it does involve us because we have to pay more money for taxes. Why should we pay more when taxes go up for something we don't even agree with. That definatly concerns us. And when people talk about homosexuality all the time (media,government,church) it's hard to ignore it. I believe being gay is a choice. The guy who was co-founder of the young gay america magazine is straight now. He talked about his gay lifestyle and why he changed. To me if he participate in gay activities, he was a co-founder for a gay magazine, and he lead a group of gay people to homophobic christians schools to protest about hate crimes he obviously use to be gay. You dont do all that if you were "never gay". If someone was really not gay they would be to scared to do any of the things he did. You can change if you dont let yourself believe that you can't.
2007-07-10 17:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by luvfades 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Sex change is not a choice - it is fixing your body to match who you are
The rest of your question is too complex for me to figure out - but I figure if Gay, Lesbian, and Trans is not a choice then Bi isn't either
2007-07-10 17:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife changed teams after 2 kids and 10 years of marriage. My stepdaughter gave up the gay life after 6 years.
Now gays will always say they were born gay. It allows them to pass off personal responsibility for their actions.
The will try to explain away my ex's and stepdaughters actions by using specific qualifiers like "confused", or "acting" gay, or "bi", etc. Well if that's true, (and they claim to be the experts), then shouldn't we refuse to accept their decision, as they too might be "confused", or "acting" gay, or "bi", etc as well? How can they say for sure that their decision to be gay is because of their birth?
2007-07-10 17:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋