does it really hurt that much wat if ur rly wet? also does it feel good the first time?
2007-07-10 09:45:28 · 21 answers · asked by N4Y4 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
by the way, im not planning on doing it yet! im just wondering b/c i always thought the first time was supposed to be really good
2007-07-10 09:57:51 · update #1
As clinical as possible, there can be pain when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
When you're turned on, the uterus and cervix rise, lengthening the vaginal tube. When his penis penetrates, the walls of the vagina stretch to accommodate the difference.
For some, the first few times make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, like the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing can help if the guy isn't in a hurry. Foreplay helps, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly can help.
2007-07-10 12:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... if you havent been fingered.. is probably going to hurt because your still really tight... so before you ever do that. let the guy do if a few times... or you just do it your self... every other time.. stick one more finger in... You will bleed.. everyone does.. but that doesnt signify pain.... no matter how wet you are it all matters on how tight you are... and if its ur first time... your probably going to be wet anyway.. cause you will be that excited... it wont feel that amazing.. cause your first time you not really concentrating on how it feels you just want to do it... you think to much.. about how the guy thinks of your body.. are you doing this right... ect.. but after you get over thinking all that stuff and start concentrating and not worrying and just doing the do... then it will feel awesome!! Just dont do it til you are absolutely sure that you are ready.. cause if you do it and you arent sure... it will take away from the pleasure that you will have... and make sure its with the right guy cause losing your virginity can either be a really great thing... or the worst thing ever.. hope it helped..
2007-07-10 10:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tender situation for me. I by no ability even had an threat to lose it until i became 21, and finally did at 22. It wasn't lots that i desired to, yet I resent that I by no ability had a decision approximately it. fairly on account that human beings in my age group (those that grew up interior the '80s) supposedly grew up in a decadent era.
2016-10-01 07:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will hurt, regardless of how wet or excited. The hymen breaks, and you loosen up some. The first time will most likely not feel the best. Good luck and use condoms! :)
2007-07-10 09:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by cubaniita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does really hurt the first time for most gals, regardless if you're soaking wet or a little wet/not wet at all. I guess it can feel good the first time, but for most girls, it hurts. 2nd & 3rd times feel 'amazing.'
2007-07-10 09:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on your body, some girls feel no pain others its awful. its a new experience and no one will be able to tell you how your body will react to it, altough the pain does go away after the first or second time and usually people are to concerned with it being their first time that they can't really tell if it feels good.
2007-07-10 09:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes gentle it wont hurt very much dont be scared theres a first time for everyone
2007-07-10 09:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take a second and think. Well your first time it will hurt because you will strtch. this may seem gross , but yes. and you may bleed. but. you may actually have a nice feeling. it may hurt quite a bit at first but once you start you should be o.k
2007-07-10 09:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Physical pain doesn't last very long - it's the psychological pain that gets you if you are not in the right place w/ the right person.
2007-07-10 09:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt really hurt, you forget about the hurt right after word.
Also if you have never been fingered it may hurt, but it didnt hurt for me
2007-07-10 09:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋