I haven't had sex with my husband to be yet, and I want to make it really good for him.
The thing is...I don't have any experience performing oral sex, and i'm sure, like anything else, there are little things, or suggestions, or tips, that can make the difference between making it "good" or making it "great" for him. I'm really ignorant about such things, and I admit it,
I'm sexually mature, and I can handle descriptive answers (it won't embarrass me). If you prefer, you can email me offline with your replies:
pilferingmonk@yahoo.com
2007-07-10 09:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you have never had sex before, I strongly suggest you not worry about oral sex or making it "really good for him". You want to enter into this experience by taking it slow and being honest with each other. Play the hot/cold game if you have to. When he does something that is good, say "Hot" and visa versa.
There are many adult "how to" books and videos out there, I don't mean porn either. I suggest you let this happen naturally. You have a lifetime to find out what each other likes. Just remember something; you never do what does not feel right mentally or physically to you, ever. Never use porn to "spice up" you love life, it doesn't it will destroy it.
2007-07-10 09:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off congrates on getting married and waiting until you are married.
Honestly there is no tips anyone can give you, except watch out for the teeth, as every man is different and likes different things. I am sure that your husband will love it now matter what. We have all gone through this stage but the only advice i can give you is communication.. ask him what feels good and what he likes and then do it..
2007-07-10 16:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the only way you can make it good or great is if you know what feels the best for him. I hate to break it to you, but you need experience to know how to make it good for him.
But if you are still looking for help try checking a cosmo magazine.
2007-07-10 16:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Single again 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm well before you have sex with him tell him why you waited before you got married so he know that hes special other than that i havent had sex
2007-07-10 16:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lizards:))))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just want some one to talk dirty to you dont you.
2007-07-10 16:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋