I've been with my boyfriend for a long time and we're in a serious relationship. He has had sex a few times before, but i'm still a virgin. I know i'm ready for it if the right time comes but i'm physically scared to do it. His penis is very very large (i'm a virgin but i've still seen my share) and i'm scared it either won't fit, or the pain will be too great. Any advice ?
2007-07-10 09:08:07 · 15 answers · asked by braineak123 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ask him to go slow, use lube and relax. All the best!
2007-07-10 09:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by aWellWisher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax the vagina can stretch to accomodate the birth of a BABY and a baby is much bigger than a penis. Since you are scared and not mentally ready do not have sex yet. When you are ready you will know it and won't be scared. Keep some lube handy in case you don't get wet enough but for now skip sex until you are not scared.
2007-07-10 16:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wasn't a virgin when this happened, but I tried to be with a guy who had a 10 inch penis and it just would not fit. No amount of foreplay, lube, or going slowly helped. Some women have small vaginas. I imagine we're the same ones who'd die in childbirth in prehistoric times. So if he won't fit, he won't fit. Trade him in for a smaller size.
2007-07-10 16:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your boyfriend 2 start out slow , and keep in mind that you are a virgin. LOL u sound just like me i was a virgin and my boyfriend was also huge the first time it did not go in, and after some tries it went in and felt awful but after a wow im sure you will feel pretty good :) good luck
2007-07-10 16:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I'm going to have to be a little graphic here. If he's very experience, he should know to place a Fing!@# in that area first. The pain is quick if he using the penis instead.
I have to say that I agree with MLGABLE above
2007-07-10 16:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you have to work your self out a lil if you know what i mean. Start with something small around the house like the small end of a carrot and then work the broader end of a carrot, after that move onto a cucumber. Once youve made ur way to the shampoo bottle youll know that ur primed and ready to go. The mot important thing in your question that you left out is if he is BIG as in wide or as in long. Just remember vagina is oddly similar to a mower it needs to be primed before u start er up.!
2007-07-10 16:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go slow, and make sure you tell your boyfriend how you feel. If you are open he will understand. Make sure you have this talk before the times comes and not while it is going down.
Once it is done you cant take it back!!
2007-07-10 16:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!
i think of the same things my bf is 8inches and im still a virgin too im scared it wont fit too lol
2007-07-10 16:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Munchy™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really worried you can get a hymenectomy at your doctor's office. It is quick, inexpensive, and painless. That will make it much, much easier the first time.
2007-07-10 16:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Diminati 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry this doesnt help at all, but i just had to say:
ur b/f might be happy to hear that lol
2007-07-10 16:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♫ Kat ♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋