friend almost did not invite me to her graduation?

Question

So I known this girl for over a year. She's a close friend now. about a month ago was her graduation. she had 9 tickets and invited her friends and family but not me. it turned out only 6 people could make it and she had 3 extra tickets. she did not think to invite me. I practically had to beg(i questioned her about what's she is going to do with the extra tickets). finally, she invited me to her graduation the day before. She invited all her friends months before. I feel that I'm at the bottom of her list of friends. This happened about a month ago. Is it too late to confront her about this? I thought the hurt would go away but it didnt. I'm said she didnt invite me until the last minute. What should I do. SHould i bring this up to her? If so, how should I approach it? Please help

Answer 1

get over it already. Things in which a limited number of tickets are involved someone is always left out. A friend of mine almost didn't get to go and he was the fiancee!!

Get over it and move on.

Answer 2

I think that for now you should let this go. If she does it again, then say something. She probably had too much on her mind to make quick decisions. Besides, she obviously has very many friends. So probably did not invite a few others as well. Just let it go. If you feel that you need to bring it up to her, then casually do it. But be careful not to make yourself seem needy. This might have just been a big misunderstanding and maybe you bringing it up will enlighten her.

Answer 3

If it's bothering you, tell her. Find out what kind of friend she really is? If she didn't invite you until the last minute, I'd say she doesn't think much of you as a good friend. Maybe you two don't have a lot in common or maybe she has friends that she's been with for longer than you. Get to the bottom of it, to find out and come to an end.

Don't always assume, because assuming is making an @ss out of u and me, @ss u me.

Answer 4

Who knows what her reasons where for not inviting you. Personally, I would be hurt too. However, I think I might let this one go. Maybe your friendship isn't as great as you thought. Perhaps you overlooked her recently? Let this one go, but the next time she overlooks you, don't be afraid to let her know about it. Make sure though you tell her how it hurt you and made you feel, rather then accusing her.

Answer 5

Give it a rest. Maybe she thought you wouldn't be impressed with her graduating at all, maybe she thought it would be rubbing in the fact that you're a dropout. Maybe she thought to keep you from the most boring and unpleasant ceremony of all life. (Trust me, I was a college prof for 10 years and attended those ceremonies as well as my own personal ones and those for relatives. I had the letter from my dermatologist framed, the one saying I couldn't attend any more due to healt.! Funerals are about as much fun and always shorter!!)

Really liking graduations is rare, like enjoying cleaning ovens. If you do, you are a treasure to your friends and relatives, but you need to publicize this unusual response so that everyone will know.

Answer 6

I wouldn't make a big issue of it but if you feel you must,then ask her.
Maybe she has a good explanation.Give her a chance and then decide if you stay friends or not.
Friends don't usually do this to their friends.
Your decision.

Answer 7

I don't think she sees ur fiendship as close as u do. It is kinda late to comfront her now. Be a regular friend or let her go.

Answer 8

Consider her not much of a friend. You can confront her if you want, but I wouldn't bother.

Answer 9

Wrong category

Answer 10

How old are you?