ok so me and my cousin who also is my best friend love the same boy! hes 16 and im 14 and shes 13
the boy we both like has a brother thats also 14 hes 3 months older than i am,
my cousins going out with the 14 year old but shes only going out with so she can get close to the brother
i dont know what to do the boy we both likes single at the moment and well he hasnt been going out with a girl since i dumped my 2 year exboyfirend do you think he likes me?
should i make a move or should i wait till he makes a move first.
by the way weve been mates with the boy i like since i was 10.
2007-07-10 08:28:29 · 12 answers · asked by DILAILA!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-07-10 08:36:24 · update #1
Just to make things easier, we'll call the 16-year old 'Jim' and his brother 'Garrett'. We'll call your cousin 'Mary', just to make things less confusing. So first of all, it is totally wrong of Mary to go out with Garrett just so she can get closer to Jim. TOTALLY wrong. Second, do you really want to risk ruining a friendship with Jim over a short relationship? To be honest, you probably won't like him for that much longer anyways and friendships last much much longer. To sum it up, wait for Jim to make a move, and if he doesn't, just be happy as friends.
2007-07-10 08:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by 8199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your cousin should see if the boy in question asks either of you out. I'm serious, now. Neither of you should go after the guy until he makes it apparent that he likes either of you, so you and your cousin don't get into a rivalry over a boy who may not like either of you that way. Continue to be "mates" with the boy as you always would, but don't mention any thing romantic until he makes the first move or be prepared for cousin trouble!!! God Bless, Martha S
2007-07-10 15:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well I think if you now the boy well enough, you should go for it. Life's too short to worry about rejection. Just go up to him casually and say" Hey,(his name) I like you a lot and I've finally gotten the courage after all this years to say this. Will you go out with me." You could also say, depending on if you can date alone or not" Want to hang out sometime, like a date?"
2007-07-10 15:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Styx_Chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think u got a better shot cause the other girl did the wrong move goin out with the bro cause then itll be all wierd and stuff whenevr hes in the room and im sure the guy u 2 both like wont like her as much after that!!!
2007-07-10 15:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, its kinda hard to decide if he likes you by just the info given. Try and flirt with him a little and give him signs that you like him and are interested. He will pick up on it and most likely make a move if not you might have too. Good Luck!
2007-07-10 15:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh pleassee your a little girl get over him, he's 16, and i dont think a 16 year old is into a 14 year old. IF he does want to date you, its only for one reason only-and thats SEX.
2007-07-10 15:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dilaila, Dear you should wait and for now focus on getting a good education. School lasts only awhile, love and lust is eternal !
2007-07-10 15:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be here....
teenagers today just worry about unimportant topics....
why don't you grab a book and start learning something else instead of trying to see what you can do to get a boyfriend.
2007-07-10 15:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sergio S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after him
2007-07-10 15:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just talk to him
2007-07-10 15:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋