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I have a friend who was my past college teacher and she is about 10 years older than me. I really think she is a good person and I think I can learn things from her in life. We talk alot through email and have become friends. I am taking a class with her hubby next fall to get a chance to get to know him and be friends with both of them.
Since she is pregnant and about to have her baby any day now.. I emailed her and wished her the best in the hospital and told her I would be praying for her and her baby. I have given her a baby gift and all that and we have gone to lunch twice. She called me sweetie for the first time and it seems to me she might want to be a closer friend maybe in a way.. not lesbian at all!!! i dont mean nothing like that! I have good intentions. Anyway... what do you think?

2007-07-10 07:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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DEPENDS!!!! Thats right it really does, I don't know you personally so I can't make a gut call on weather she is taking advantage of naive nature or not. But typically in our world you don't see many friends with that big of an age gap unless they understand a lot more about the truth of the world. You thou talking about prayer and such worries me. But this isn't a question that requires me to say anything about religion except that people have a tendency be one naive and two unable to understand there fellow man, to much of that, all people are good people crap/ good has a plan stuff. Really what I'd be worried about is that she is actually hiding something much, much more sinister about her and her hubby, but that would be in a sexual realm. So if your friend never says a darn thing perverse having to do with her and her husban, then I see nothing wrong here. I've got a whole family of friends (there not my family, just good bunch of hill billies) and there ages are 56/58 and were great, close friends. Just be caution now, and I only say that because I don't know you, that something more perverse is going on in the background. But you'd know, you'd feel something not right, something that they want to say but don't. As long as the gut doesn't go off on you, well anyone can be a friend! Just realize to being a friend is some sappy-bs like everyone pretraies. Friends is just a word to discribe the bond between to people, so just be intense and honest and truthful and all that fun stuff, and have fun!

2007-07-10 10:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

i think of that's what we call close acquaintances and a few what like sisters, i think of its truly great to have somebody close to to you. who became a instructor and you will learn many sturdy issues from her, you're so fortunate,, she call you sweetie does not propose lesbian as you theory became genuine,, you are able to desire to be greater helpful approximately it no longer damaging do no longer think of different issues purely think of as she's became your instructor now you 2 are close acquaintances, you 2 get so nicely due on your and her age are 10 years distinction, you have lot of admire for her and so does she have for you,, and that's why you 2 are close acquaintances, i think of she's an extremely great individual, save up a correspondence along with her,

2016-10-01 07:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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