every month someone 3 ways me and im stuck in a place i dont want to be in. if they have no one else to put down they come to me with backup saying i did something or said somthing when i keep my mouth shut. it makes me mad!
2007-07-10 07:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Emma,
i <3 you. if someone is trying to do this s*** to you then forget them.
if they make you mad tell them to shut up get a life and hang up. honey.
if that happens to you again and you get your feelings hurt
then just call me :DD
2007-07-11 19:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- I really feel for you- Girls are SO MEAN- AND, they just LOVE ganging up on kind hearted people like you. My Daughter is going through the same thing @ this time, and believe me- IT MAKES ME VERY MAD! I have learned not to become involved in the battles, as this gives them more ammunition on you if "MOMMY" gets in the middle. People, even when they become adults, do these little "mind games" on the innocent. Generally, they are just putting everyone else down to make themselves feel better about themselves. Ur question said these are ur friends- but, are they really? Do you enjoy their company- do you do things to be accepted. It is tough, at ur age, to remove urself from this type of situation, but, I really think you need to think REALLY HARD if this is the type of people you want to hang out with. They are really stirring the crap by sayin things u didn't say- and if it makes u mad, is it worth it? I doubt if they lose sleep over what they do to you- Do you waste alot of energy on what they do? Try to take a little power and control back- Hang up, or do NOT answer the phone calls when they ring u up. You sound like a nice person- and there are nice people out there that will be more positive in ur life. Surround urself with POSITIVE friends- not bullies. Hope this helped u out- GOOD LUCK!!
2007-07-17 19:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me b the 1st to tell you that closed mouths do not get fed. If you keep your mouth shut about your feelings, you will get hurt all the time. If you open your mouth and express yourself, you will get them off your back. If they persist after that, you get yourself a new set of friends. Watch out now, since they gang up on you all the time, they may try to gang up on you in another way - feel me? good luck.
2007-07-17 06:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by spreetray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not ur friends at all but if u really really are mad and wanna get them back, heres what u do. find out a SUPER secret one of the three wayers has and when ur on the phone with them say it and then all 3 of them will hear.....or if all 3 of them always talk at once, then maybe you should say wow u guys are pathetic u have nothin to do so ur callin me? wow and then hang up.
2007-07-10 08:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl used to always try to put me on three way. all i did was sit there for a bout a second and when they talk mess i say whatever and hang the phone up.and if they call back i don't even anwser. if they keep calling in a row i take the phone off the hook.
2007-07-10 07:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are NOT what u shud be caling friends. they're bullies. they're hurting you and its not right! leave them. find new friends that really care about you and care about how you feel and wont hurt you!!!
if it gets worse make sure you tell someone. i was having a really rough time for 2 years at secondary school and i didnt do anything about it. and when i did it was all sorted out! done and dusted! no problems =D
im really glad i told someone!
all the best hunni!
leave them. they dont deserve you!!
xoxoxoxox
2007-07-10 07:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by x.T.x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say that friends r ganging up on u. tell them that ur not their friends and make new ones. if they start ganging up on u again just dont talk to them and get out of there. when they talk just ignore them and walk away!
2007-07-18 05:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes and realize that these people are not your friends. Friends are not suppose to treat you like that. Go out and find some real friends.
2007-07-10 07:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Boopalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt call them friends. I think thats pretty shitty. I would let them know if it happens again how you feel. good luck. Find some better friends that are true and not fake.
2007-07-10 07:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Meradith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that these people care more about the drama than they care about you. Ditch them and find more mature friends.
2007-07-10 07:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋