Hello I have a girlfriend of 6 yrs now and she is cool, i love her. I have a friend that is hot, i lust her. Anyhow I just want to see how many fellow lesbians would say yes to this or how it would have to worded to answer yes to it for your girlfriend.
I want to have sex with my friend and I want my girlfriend to be ok with it. I dont want to cheat so she'd have to know, so how can I get her to let me do it. I have thought, it's only friend sex and im still in love with you but need more to make it work. would you let your girlfriend if she was really serious, in love with you and just wanted to have sex with her friend for fun because she was in lust. I know its a long shot but what can i say to increase my chances?
thanks!
2007-07-10 06:48:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
STOP! she will leave you. You will be cheater scum to her..don't you know most lesbians are super monogamous!
2007-07-10 06:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even bring it up. It's not worth the fight and ending the relationship over. You need to work out your lust for this other girl on your own, without getting them involved. It's not their fault. Hell, that girl might not even be attracted to you. If you honestly can't get it out of your head, then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now. That's okay , too. You might need break for a while. Who knows. But you have to figure it out, 'cause you never get your cake and eat it, too. There is always a catch
2007-07-10 15:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by nothingbutme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your girlfriend a favor and break up. the kind of love you have for her is not the kind that would make a long term relationship too successful. you are thinking too selfishly to really commit to another person just yet. don't get me wrong, that's fine! but you gotta call a spade a spade, you know? what do you want? a healthy monogamous relationship, or a f*ck? instead of concentrating on how your girlfriend may feel, you are concentrating on making her say yes, which demonstrates what you think she'll feel instinctually: she won't like it. be honest with yourself and with her. what do you REALLY want? you can't have it both ways.
2007-07-10 14:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by mackkie b 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right, I'd never sleep with another girl.
I love my girlfriend too much.
If my girlfriend said she wanted to have sex with her best friend and wanted me to be okay with it..
I'd break up with her right on the spot.
She could say she was madly in love with me all she wanted.
I'd still break up with her.
Sorry, for not helping you word it so she'll say yes.
I don't think she'd ever say yes to it.
2007-07-10 14:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by SarahMoore! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
⥠You dont want to do it.. believe me... you have to ask yourself is losing your girl worth one night of lust with this other girl?
"Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."
⥠Even if you try to tell her she will prolly be so offended and hurt that she will leave you anyway..
2007-07-10 16:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love your girl... if you did it would be only her you lust after.
No, i wouldn't let my girlfriend sleep with another woman for fun... she's suppose to sleep with me for fun.
2007-07-10 13:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
wrath is right, you don't love your partner, I feel sorry that she is stuck with a loser like you. When you really love someone, you don't lust after anyone but the one you love.
2007-07-10 13:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't even bring it up, forget you know the other woman, or get her to talking about having sex with other women, get her to tell you she has thought about it. Your best bet is to do that and suggest a 3 some, if you try to exclude her it will be all over!
2007-07-10 13:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by samhillesq 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I don't care what you call it or how you'd try to justify it, but to me - cheating is cheating. And it's evil.
If my girlfriend wanted someone else, she would be free to leave.
I don't cheat, and I don't like cheaters.
2007-07-10 13:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by FTW 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋