Is there anything you wished you had done which you now can`t?
I`m stone free at the moment and I want to make the most of it... (money IS an object though)
2007-07-10 06:26:27 · 21 answers · asked by Infromthestorm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dover56dover I suppose I am so free I feel trapped if that makes sense.
I dont want to be free any more...its getting boring and suffocating...but until that certain person comes along I have no other choice....thats why I ask..
Its basically a what the hell shall I do with myself question..... Love, marriage security etc seems to evade me for some reason, I`m getting frustrated with myself and with everybody around me, and I `m running out of things to do to keep my mind active and off that impossible task of morgage/kids/mariage.....
Somebody please help me!!! AAAAggghhhhh!!!
2007-07-10 07:03:28 · update #1
Live your life preparing.
Dive into your career to get better or best at it.
Save money as if expecting tomorrow to be a tragedy.
Don't SEEK a mate, be yourself and walk alone for awhile absorbing all that life offers you .. travel, excitement and serenity when that is what you crave.
When the right one comes along, you'll KNOW it. Be careful in your choices of women .. don't allow any of them to KNOW your financial status or any of the "business" end of who you are.
Never date ANYONE you wouldn't consider marrying and never have sex without YOU providing the protection. Never trust without that trust being earned and always present the Best of Who you Are.
2007-07-10 14:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
School or college is the first thing that gets taken away from young couples that start a family early. GO TO SCHOOL. If money is an object then u have none and a college degree would help u get started on a great career. CAREER is the thing u will want the most. When u do settle down and start a family you will have a great job and will be able to provide for your family. So I would concentrate on a career right now. Partying and traveling will be a choice for the rest of your life and without money how much fun can it be?
2007-07-10 13:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by smi_le_y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I pretty much did everything that I wanted to do before marriage. As far as interests, Im still able to do what I wish. My playing the field days have been over for some time now, so thats not even an issue here.
2007-07-10 13:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have . . .
parachuted;
gambled in Las Vegas;
had sex outdoors on a college campus;
toured Portugal;
looked out the forehead of the Statue of Liberty;
skiied in the Rocky Mountains;
played at Disney Land and Disney World;
eaten kimchi in Korea;
learned conversational Spanish;
taken a Caribbean cruise;
fired the main gun of a tank;
stood inside the Lincoln Memorial;
swum in the Pacific, Atlantic, and Gulf of Mexico;
had sex in the Japanese Pavilion at Epcot;
and much, much more.
I have a mortgage; I have two charming daughters; and I have been married for 21 years. Some of the above I did before I married, some after. Life is an adventure if you let it be, whatever your circumstances!
2007-07-10 13:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking a butterfly what it wished it could have done when it was a caterpillar. I no longer worry about the future, because I'm living it now. I can do anything I want and I have the support of a loving family and a warm home to return to each day.
2007-07-10 13:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by crystalonyx3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do wish my husband and I could have experienced what it would have been like to just be together, but since we had three kids between us when we met we never had the opportunity to really date. Everything we did involved our kids. I dont really regret it though. It made the decision to have a child together pretty easy, we figured one more wasn't going to change much!
2007-07-10 19:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by EllD75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm...nope. Happily married and wouldn't change a thing. I've traveled plenty, had my heart broken enough, had my fill of over indulgence of alcohol...umm...yup, I'm good. Would like to travel with my family now. Show my baby girl and my husband all those beautiful places in the world I've been.
2007-07-10 13:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by spottychan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe traveled more. The thing about your freedom is it's hard to realize what it's like to NOT have it. Just enjoy your personal time, come and go as you please. I've probably missed that the most. Once you have kids everything needs to be planned out. Enjoy life and learn everything you can. Once you have kids you'll have much to share with them! Good luck!
2007-07-10 13:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finished college before I had my 2 year old.. I was 19 when I had him, I don't regret him for anything in this world, but wished I could of finished my education first.. but it's life, and god's plan..
2007-07-10 13:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by RoOgUrL85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travel: You can make your way around countries very cheaply on cargo boats and the like. Stay in hostels and campsites, plan as much as poss before you go and live la vida loca.
2007-07-10 13:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋