SO today my bf informs me that I'm a little too thick and should try to lose about 10lbs....I work out 4 days a week and watch my weight...I'm 5'9 145 lbs and wear a size...I think I look healthy I cant help that I have hips and a butt...so of course I had to get random peoples opinions lol...thanks!!
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2007-07-10 05:30:09 · 67 answers · asked by Kquestion 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sorry I wear a size 8
2007-07-10 05:30:32 · update #1
You are fine. Keep working out and watching your weight, but no need to drop.
2007-07-10 05:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by pa 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
If you do in fact exercise properly 4 days a week and eat healthy, then you've settled into your ideal weight. Even if you lost 10 pounds, you'd more than likely put it back on as you find yourself back at your ideal weight. What about your boyfriend? Could he stand to lose a few as well? If so, consider working out together and set a goal for each other. You'll lose weight if he loses weight or puts on a little more muscle. Keep each other encouraged to meet that goal. If he's not willing to work out with you, then he really shouldn't be saying you need to lose weight but he's in perfect shape. I'd approach it like that but don't take it to harshly.
2007-07-10 05:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by PunkVader 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you're just fine. Cute, too. Any man that tells me I need to lose weight would get my boot up his @ss. That's not cool. The real question here is how tall is your man, what does he weigh and more importantly what is his waist size? If a man that wears pants in a 36" waist (or above) were to lose 15 pounds, they gain an inch on their you-know-what. So..what size waist are HIS pants? Better not be 36" or bigger otherwise you are getting shortchanged, dear. LOL
2007-07-10 05:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is all about taste. You are never going to be able to say, "Hey, these other people, including myself, think i am at a great weight." He is telling you what he thinks about your weight. You either say right on and lose some weight, which you will probably love yourself, or you tell him to kick rocks. He trusted you enough to tell you the truth. That is a good sign.
It all comes down to how you feel about your weight, but keep in mind, i know lots of women who think they are big and beautiful and they are lonely. Think what you want, hot people get more action and are treated better than others. They have a better pool to draw mates from then overweight people. Good luck with your decision.
2007-07-10 05:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a friend who would sit here and cry if she saw your bf making criticism over your weight, when she has to lose a couple hundred more before the doctor will even agree to operate on her knees.
If I lost another 30, I might come close to looking like you.
Be grateful for your blessings.
2007-07-10 05:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are a beautiful woman. Be healthy and don't worry about the size of clothes you wear. Women have hips and butts. They should be on the beautiful list, not like size 0 girls. You are not fat, you are beautiful.
2007-07-10 05:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl you look good your size, I wear a size 11, now I know that if your small you feel like you s hould wear a 7 or something but that will never happen for me! I have but and thighs also, guys don't want a skinny girls and if so there is something wrong with that guy!
2007-07-10 05:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by leshawatts2002 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since your happy with the way you are that is what matters most. Considering most women are not happy with their bodies, I think your ahead of the game. I will tell you one thing, if my bf ever told me to lose 10 lbs, there would be hell to pay. Tell him he needs to glow hair/bulk up/larger %$#@/ and see how he likes it.
If I were you I wouldn't workout anymore than you are already doing, tell him to like it or leave it.
2007-07-10 05:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not at all fat. Taller People are usually thicker but in no way are you too thick. Why did he just suddenly realize this today. Maybe he is jsut messing with you. If you are happy with your slef then dont worry about a thing.
2007-07-10 05:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by hey! 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You look fine dear, maybe your just not his type....would have been nice if he had said that before becoming your BF...I am a size 8 also and I am proud of my body. Forget him and move on.
Good Luck
2007-07-10 05:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Girl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋