Hello, I just recently found out that my girlfriend posted all these super personal problems of ours... right here, on Y! answers she even lied a little bit to make me seem all the more evil.
Anyhow, I'm mad and I thought..Hey, I shouldn't just come up with her punishment all alone..I should involve Y! answers because they are already oh so familiar with our personal life.
but yes...
punishments?
2007-07-10 04:14:36 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe her "punishment" should be sitting down and actually talking to you. Instead of considering it punishment, consider it bonding. It seems you two need some of that in your realtionship.
She may be afraid to share her feelings in an intimate setting, and a more anonymous way to seek guideance in your relationship. They may be the typical things one might get advice from their mom, but she doesnt feel comfortable doing that.
I think embarassment is her biggest issue, and you should be kind to her for that. Keep in mind her last companion might have been cruel to her and that's why she seeks the advice of strangers.
2007-07-10 04:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend did nothing wrong by asking for advice here.
This is an anonymous forum, and no-one here knows who you or your girlfriend are, so your super personal problems are still totally personal.
I don't know what she's posted here but maybe you could take clues on what she said and asked and try correct the problems you have instead of punishing her for being worried about your relationship.
I believe that if she posted here in the first place about your problems, is that because she cares about what you have together.
Good luck in resolving this in a mature and peaceful way.
2007-07-10 04:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by stephane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needed some consolence, since you werent obviously there to listen to those problems. Don't be so selfish. At least she was trying to get help for your relationship. Dont be a b*tch or whatever you are. If your going to go through with "punishment" then i hope she leaves you and find someone who is better and who is willingt o help her and not plot revenge like a little child.
2007-07-10 04:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Punishment?" You punish your dog when he chews up the toilet paper, and punish your kid when they sneak out of the house, but you don't punish your girlfriend, no matter what she did. You don't own her.
Like anybody's gonna know who you people are anyway.
Like anybody cares.
Talk it out. If that doesn't work, say bye-bye. You sound too emotionally immature for a relationship anyway.
Might I add, your girlfriend probably didn't think you'd care so much. Take that into consideration.
2007-07-10 04:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of punishing your girlfriend, why don't you try talking to her and letting her know how her behavior made you feel. By punishing her, you take on the role of a parent not an adult. Work this out like adults and be honest.
2007-07-10 04:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First: Grow up, act your age, be the adult. People like you are the reason there are wars. There are far more intelligent ways of revenge than brute force and stupid insults.
Second: Looks like you two have some serious trust issues. Talk about it, with a counselor or a neutral friend.
Third: If you can't do either of those, move on.
2007-07-10 04:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by mega_byte_me2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person does not "punish" another. If you didn't like what she did, talk to her. If you still want what you claim to have by the title "girlfriend" you can work it out. If your pride means more than the relationship, leave. You'll both be better off.
2007-07-10 04:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I read this and thought eh... but reading it again... why don't you try being the bigger person? That's a good way to get someone back. When you don't sink to their level or immaturity and hold your head high, it irks people! sit down and talk to your gf. Find out what her problems are with you, your relationship, and go from there. I would say you don't need us, but you need to intervention her for her feelings/thoughts. Good luck! :)
2007-07-10 04:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are into BDSM then perhaps a light flogging. If you are not into that then instead of punishing her you try to talk to her and let you know how doing that made you feel. Passive agressive behavior never solves anything and will only make you seem immature.
2007-07-10 04:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tie her to a table then take a slug and tie it to her forehead and feed her taco sauce through a tube until her face becomes bloated then call the hospital and tell them she has the mumps.
Then she goes to the hospital for a day or two while you get back at her.
2007-07-10 04:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋