I've been married 10 years and last weekend I came home in the middle of the day and the wife was in the shower and both kids were down for a nap. My wife came out of the bathroom naked. I just grabbed her and threw her down on the couch and took her. She acted like she was resisting for a second and then we had toe curling sex. My question is how often can I do this and it still be really hot for her? An does this help her to feel sexy?
2007-07-10 03:17:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her.....She may have stopped resisting because you are her husband and didn't want to start a fight......If you do it and she really doesn't want to, its the same a rape......sorry it sounds so harsh but talk to her, get her aspect on it......I mean every now and then the surprise could be very pleasant.
2007-07-10 03:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by tx_mstry_lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really depends on the woman. I personally love that stuff. I try to be a dominant independent woman in my day to day life but behind closed doors I prefer to play submissive, nothing kinky but "being taken" on occcasion is great and a complete turn on! Doing it (sorry) in different places livens it up a bit too, after awhile the bedroom can seem so routine.
I wouldn't do it all the time because it will lose it's surprise effect. I would say a real good "taking" once or twice a month is fine. Other times try toned down dominant roles (don't want to get too graphic)
Have fun! ;-)
2007-07-10 03:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by ORetha V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a great time. And you're right to be questioning how often to do this. I hate it when I tell my man what I like and then he does it ALL THE TIME! Ruins it for me. I wouldn't do it anymore than once every couple of months. I've read that it is many a woman's fantasy to "be taken" like that, just not violently, but forceful in a sexy way. I'm sure she feels very sexy when you do that, fulfilling a little fantasy there! Good for you! Enjoy!
2007-07-10 03:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Peronally, I love being taken! Trying to resist and not being able to is what makes it hot. My fiance knows when I'm trying to wiggle myself out from underneath him that he shouldn't let me. If he did this all the time, maybe I'd get used to it, I don't know. But I like not knowing when he's going to just "take" me. If you and your wife had toe-culring sex afterwards, then I'd say the domination thing is working for you. No need to stop doing it! It's defintiely nice to have sweet, romantic sex too, but then when he surprises me with something rough and powerful... espcecially if I'm stressed out, I absolutely love being submissive to him. I can really, truly, let myself go during those time. It's the best!
2007-07-10 03:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is incredible that you and your wife can still do that after 10 yrs of marriage. You can do this at least once or twice a month, or maybe even less. Depends on the situation. Also any type of compliment makes your wife feel sexy. Ladies love to feel pretty. Compliment her hair, the perfume she is wearing. Basically anything. Ladies love attention any which way they get it !!
2007-07-10 03:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by nagurnsk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you've been married for 10 years, it's nice to have different ways of having sex or different places. This was a nice change for your wife, but she wouldn't want it all the time. Variety is good. It keeps the sex life from going stale.
2007-07-10 03:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, I married and a little surprise like that will brighten your day. I do that to my husband sometimes it makes it more passionate. It is good to do random things but keep it random and not consistent as it will lose the desired affect. Sometimes as mothers we may feel undesirable and this reassures us that we are still desirable to you. Try different areas of the house for more excitement and intensity.
Good Luck and continue to show her that she's important to you.
2007-07-10 04:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by NAY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Nice move!
Don't do it too often or you will lose the element of surprise. Be creative and spontaneous, it's what keeps the passion and heat alive.
You're on the right track, by the way.
2007-07-10 03:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time it is great as long as i am not in the middle of something else or that time of the month us women have mood issues sometimes that is the only thing that would make it a problem and if you did it too much more than a few times per month it might lose the edge and yes it would make me feel very hot.
2007-07-10 03:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by rubawaytheday 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice!!!!! spontaneous sex is almost always welcome. Even passionately forceful sex is nice with someone that you love. Just remember no means no, and if she's not in the mood, you forcing yourself on her could change the course of your relationship forever.
Trust me! happened to me...my husband forced himself on me and I hated him from that day forward. And I'm freaky! I like forceful, rough sex...but I wasn't feeling good that day and told him NO and he took me anyway. It wasn't good, I felt sick and used. I hurt both inside and out. Couldn't imagine why someone who said they loved me could be so selfish. When I tried to talk to him after wards...I saw a whole different person than the one that I thought I married. He justified his action by saying it was my duty. And from that day forward I could only picture him as a disgusting rapist. We're thankfully divorced now.
2007-07-10 03:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋