I have tried masturbation.. several times and im 13... im going through puberty cuz im starting to have facial hair.. i have pubic hair down there and my voice is cracking.. i keep growing taller etc,, but every time i masturbate i cant ejaculate... i dont feel the joy in it.... i feel wierd cuzwhen i masturbate i dont get the feeling that everyone else has...i only got to a semi orgasm once with a pillow.. but the next day i tried and it didnt do anything
help please idk what to do.. why cant i get this feeling.. is it worth it to masturbate
2007-07-10 02:55:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are NOT abnormal. Just don't worry!! As you progress with puberty, the "feeling" will come as will the fluid with sperm. It is a wonderful feeling, so be patient and you will be happy.
Chow!!
2007-07-10 03:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not through puberty yet man. You gotta wait till you've gone through most of the process. But I discourage the practice. It's normal to a degree, but after the curiosity is over through discovery, you should leave it. It's not a good thing to get into. It's not necessarily bad for your health, but it can only do bad in relationships and sex is meant for a person, not with yourself. Those feelings are meant for a special bond, not for periodic pleasure.
2007-07-10 18:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirteen is still quite young. Don't compare yourself to your friends; everyone's ability to orgasm comes at a different age.
My sense is that you need to develop other interests as well as friends who talk about things besides sex. When your mind and body are ready, you'll be able to ejaculate.
2007-07-10 04:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dugger A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
little young wait a couple more months.
Since your a little young you need time between each attempt maybe once a week then by the time your 14 maybe it will work out better.
And people he has a girlfriend analyze the asker people he has a girlfriend. He posted a question on it.
2007-07-12 20:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pencils In The Wind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man... I guess "try harder" doesn't mean much, right? Try setting the mood better. Watch porn or whatever "flares" you. Sex toys? You are too young and it doesn't mean much, believe me. (well that sounds odd...) Hopefully, having a better/sexier atmosphere wiill help. And continue until you ejaculate. The speed and technique also metter, but I don't think that I could teach it to you over intrernet... It is something you need to figure yourself.
2007-07-10 03:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys never do enjoy masturbating. If it isn't pleasurable to you, don't bother. You may be one of those who only feel good when someone else does it for them.
2007-07-10 11:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes its worth it! I think you are not doing it long enough, and your head is not into it yet. You need to use your imagination and think sexy, thoughts. Think what girls look like and what you would like to do with them. All good things come in time, have patients.
2007-07-10 03:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll come in time. (pardon the pun) Don't rush the process, relax and let it all happen naturally.
2007-07-10 03:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just get a girlfriend and she can masturbate you and you and her can do other things
2007-07-10 03:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in orgasam there is need of sexual thresold,as your thresold can not reach for that you could not achive orgasam.though you are not much old you will learn autometicaly in future,
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2007-07-10 03:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by DR PRAMOD KUMAR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋