why do so many women believe in No S E X after marriage?

Question

Well!?

Answer 1

I think maybe many women don't understand that for men sex is as important as air and water, they need it like we need conversation. Also men have to learn how to do it properly, and how to meet a woman's needs too, we have different needs and we don't understand that, I'm not just talking sexually but in many areas.

Answer 2

Not that we believe in NO sex- it is just that it should be getting better -- the same old.. becomes so blah-- it is no longer worth the effort.... for lack of foreplay-- basically a climb on & climb off?? NAH...... I have laundry to do-- For the men that have this problem in their marriage... take a good long hard look at what you have been offering-- if it is boring- a quickie-- lacks true passion-- then you have your answer-
You get what you give--- when she becomes the "housewife" and her role of lover & friend are overshadowed w/ chores & children.. & your demands... you come home-- & the best you can do is.....Ya wanna?? or How about it? ... Pleeeease-- you kill their desire yourselves....
**note** I do acknowledge that there are women that are like that for no good reason-- but since I am not one of those-- I can't answer for them..

Answer 3

Because after marriage most men become selfish jerks who expect you do do all the cooking, cleaning, watching kids, cut the lawn,run their errands, do the laundry, etc, etc. They don't want hear anything when you want to talk to them - but magically at bedtime -THEY want sex. Do you think that maybe- just maybe - that women get sick and tired of giving??????? Maybe if men treated woman a little differently , women would desire their husbands a little more.

Answer 4

Most women know better than to marry a guy that makes them melt. Women marry for stability and support of her and her children. In return, they provide the minimum amount of sex required to keep you from straying.

Men that light women's fire are usually physically and emotionally imposing and make poor husbands. They do, however frequently end up being the biological fathers to many women's children.

Answer 5

We get fed up with the lack of spark our men used to have. Men, more than women, get into a "comfort" zone and think they don't have to make an effort any more. I think all women will unite with me when I say "use it, or lose it".

Answer 6

well its a long story..lol.. well for me there are some reasons behind that. first, culture, second belief and third religion. if you want to know more talk to me..lol, kidding. well women such that have high regards to their self and they respect the tradition so much, and so when they do thatbefore marriage they think its a big sin and they are not pure anymore. and also they like to offer their self to the one only person who deserved them.

Answer 7

This was funny!!! I don't think they believe in no sex it's just that once you're married I think reality kicks in. If there is no more wining and dining then there is no more spontaneous sex. You set the tone.

Answer 8

Because they don't have to have sex after marriage. The sex before marriage is just the bait to get you to marry them. It's a trap. Woman are manipulative and sex is their primary weapon.

Answer 9

i dont know who the women are i was married 18 yrs there was not a day that went buy i didnt have sex i loved it when i was married

Answer 10

whats a stupid thing to believe in ... its ridiculous. i think its more the fact that some married couples get stuck into the routine and 'forget' i suppose...take each other for granted etc......