This is a comment that I received about a co-worker that has personality type "A/B". She is a leader type, but lacks any possitive commentation. Basically she knows what she's doing, but is difficult to match. At this point I am her new target. Her attitude controls the office on most days. I was signed on yesterday with a company I've been temping with for 10 months. I guess she thought I'd go away, but now I'm her main focus. She gets everyone worked up little things. Such as I was taken out to lunch for initiation, and she had a few people worked up about it. How do I go head to head with this type without letting her get to me? (Bottom line, I used to work under her side of the office where she had some control over me, now I'm working for her "enemy". Help! I'm just trying to work for money, not compete with a contender!
2007-07-10 00:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just let her do her thing. I think she wants to get to you. Ignore it and go on your way. I know how it is. Don't let her get to you and if she does it again then confront her about it. Ask her why she has a problem with you. And everyone else in that matter. How long has she been there? She might just think that everyone is out to get her who doesn't fear her. I wish you the best. Don't let it get to you for that is your job on the line and not hers.
2007-07-10 00:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act as if you know nothing about what she is doing. If it does not affect you, she will lose the desire to taunt you. Plenty of people are intimidated by new employees, because she are insecure in their postion. I would not worry too much. If she really becomes a problem, then you will need to resolve it with your supervisor.
2007-07-10 00:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont be easy Been there done that...it stinks
for me im emotional and i was crying daily and i left the job after awhile...think about whether you can really stand it...keep your chin up if you can and then relax on the way home....good luck
2007-07-10 00:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just focus on doing ur job well and everything else will fall into place for you..
2007-07-10 00:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Paulie Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋