I am experiencing a lot of confusion in my social life and love life, i know they say go with the flow when you don't know what decision to make (if you have to make one), but it's been months and i just want fate to work faster! My sister said when confusion sets in, one day the right decision will just click in my head, and i feel so lost and wandering aimlessly in those 2 avenues of my life, what do you think?
2007-07-09 22:44:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The right choice is already made, you need to understand the choice, you need a big picture thinking, and never forget that what happend, happend in that way and not in any way else. Maybe sometimes you need time, fate never slow down nor go faster, it's meant to be like that, don't bother yourself looking for a faster way, when thing will happen it will in only one good and best way.
2007-07-09 22:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by angel_speak2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sometimes the answer does come to you. Try to relax about it. Sometimes you can focus on things too much & drive yourself crazy & only feel more confused, but if you back off from it and get involved in something else, your mind may present the answer. Go for a long walk, have a bubble bath, give yourself some quiet time to just be. In these quiet moments the answer may come to you. Also, sometimes your dreams present you with unexpected answers. Keep a notebook by your bed & jot down your dreams when you wake up. It may not make sense immediately, but when you look back on it later, you may find surprising clues (I did this before & it was fascinating the things I realized about myself.)
Good luck.
Remember life is filled with choices. Just make one & commit to it. No matter what it is it probably won't be the end of the world. Life is about learning as you go & making mistakes. Most things aren't undo-able. It's better to choose something than wander aimlessly. Even not choosing is a choice, but probably not the best one.
2007-07-10 07:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible -- billions of people before you have done it.
When you're faced with two choices, just make the one that makes the most sense. If it subsequently proves to be the wrong one, so what? You're human, and humans make mistakes. You're SUPPOSED to make mistakes, because that's really the only way you learn and grow.
You said you "want fate to work faster" -- well, good luck with that. Just keep making the best choices you can. Trust me, fate/destiny/the future will eventually arrive on your doorstep.
2007-07-10 06:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The only problem is it might take forever before it clicked!
2007-07-10 07:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by ROBERT P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2007-07-10 05:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋