Something about fools wearing their hearts on their sleeve,and that I am like an open book.He says all my blogs are questions are too 'detailed' and that i am the perfect target for bullies,phobics etc.
He also said that it takes one peadophile to know another.Blah years ago i was with a married man when i was a teen,i am an adult know and my best friend is 16 years old and we have known each other for 2 years.I've never really thought it before but i am worried now.He said my friend,Ryan,has probably moved away to get away from me and that i should date people my own age.But i swear on everything holy i never once did anything sexual with Ryan at all,we have kissed once or twice but in a friendship way but thats it.He said i should hand myself into the polie before someone else does and that Ryans parents are probably not dead at all and they are with ryan right now as a family.
Are my blogs really too detailed?Am i a fool?
I get stupid emails from people but this one is horrible.
2007-07-09 22:29:21 · 18 answers · asked by dusk_to_moonbeam 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He is a guy that is targeting 2 'friends?' of mine on here for some reason because they are NOT dating each other.Looks like its my turn.
Well ryan is of legal age now to do anything at 16,we are both in the UK and the age of consent IS 16 here,but like i said i never did anything with him.And i have only kissed him these past couple of months since he turned 16.
2007-07-09 22:56:36 · update #1
Honestly I wouldn't take his opinion to heart. As you've said he's attacking other people, so he's probably just trying to shake you. Don't let him, if you haven't and aren't doing anything wrong don't listen to him. I would suggest you put him on ignore and just avoid him, as he's probably not worth your time. There are horrible people in the world and they attack everyone they can, he is probably one of them. Stay being who you are, as you've even said you did nothing with your best friend. But now that he is legal age in your country, ask him out if you'd like. If you have feelings for someone, you are both single, and of legal age... there shouldn't be anyone/anything that should/could stop you! Good luck with Ryan! :)
As for your blogs, if you feel you are being too personal in them, cut back on what you say. I know I try not to write anything too personal in mine, but state observations and opinions. It keeps me from talking a lot about myself and it's probably more interesting than me really talking about me. Although I'll throw a story in from time to time of something that has happened to me, if it's funny. But I always keep personal details about myself to a minimum. There are a lot of crazy people in this world and I don't want your/my attacker every finding me. :)
2007-07-10 04:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really do have to be careful what you write, since the Internet is virtually open to the public. I don't think you're a paedophile, however, whoever wrote that horrible piece of trash to you, has taken a friendship and turned it into an ugly thing. Copy and paste what you've already written on notepad, text, etc, for your computer (not the Internet), then erase every and all your blog entries pronto. Then contact a lawyer ASAP (which was suggested). Good luck, Sweety.
2007-07-09 22:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the problem with pedafilia is that the line to which it is drawn is fuzzy to say the least.
i think we can all say sleeping with a 4yr old is sick, ****** up and disgusting!
but someone who is 16? in the uk 16 is age of consent, in others 12 is age of consent, 18 and 21 in diffrent places are ages of consent. if ur 22 and u sleep with someone who is 20 then legally in some places in the world that would be considered pedafillia! yet in others a 30yr old can sleep with a 13yr old and it is not.
i think its slightly neive to say that everyone wen they reach a certin age can have sex, its mental maturity that is a big factor as well!!!
my advice is try to stick as close to ur age group as possible, personally i think 16 is ok, providing they are mental meture enought to be with, but im just turned 19 now. i have not slept with someone 16 (except wen i was 16 lol) because i have yet to meet one i find mature enough for me.
it is NO DOUBT A monster taboo!
and everyone will have their own imaginary drawn lines of what is wrong and right in terms of age, as will the laws of diffrent nations. I am not saying if you are right or not, but just to get you to think, you might look at this situation in a diffrent way, either in the way u want to go or in the oposite direction but at least you will be moving forward
i hope you are able to figure out what you need/want to do bout it
2007-07-10 00:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kissing is not sex, it may be incorporate, depending on the kiss, but you said you kissed as friends, then its cool. Sex or having naked pictures/videos of people under the age of consent is wrong and illegal. I don't know about your blogs, and I don't know about your friend, but I do know that guy is a prick. Just like on here there are people who like to and get a rise out of people. That is probably what he is doing as well.
2007-07-09 22:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pedophiles are, by definition, attracted to prepubescent children. Biologically speaking, a 16-year-old might as well be an adult, so try not to worry.
Even so, in our age of dwindling privacy, you should always be careful not to post anything you wouldn't want to be made public. Believe it or not, there was a case here recently of a woman being denied a teaching certification because of a myspace photo showing her enjoying an alcoholic beverage in a pirate costume.
2007-07-10 03:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like either a very obsessed troll, or someone who's upset you're not willing to go with him.
You don't sound like a paedophile.
You have a right to keep a blog, don't you? Don't let this guy's obsession ruin your internets, or your friendships.
Also, older guys are hotter than younger guys. It's a scientific fact.
2007-07-10 00:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by vegetable 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have let him beat you Nate, he has sucked you in like he wanted to do, so that you have to try to defend yourself and has put fear into you on legalities. Let him ramble on, don't retaliate to his demands, you don't owe anyone an explanation, what you and Ryan get up to is your business and your business only, but back off just a little bit in giving your details. Smooth sailing and forget his stupid emails.
2007-07-10 02:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is - if you are in the USA, stick to people 18 or over. Otherwise, you could be in big trouble. It's just safer, you know. And it is better to be safe than sorry.
2007-07-09 22:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy just likes to bully people and probably has no life of his own ignore it and get on with your life!
2007-07-09 23:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, youre in some trouble...I suggest you retain a lawyer ASAP and keep your fingers crossed that the police do not come knocking at your door one of these days. It may be nothing to you, but the way laws are enforced when it comes to situations like that, especially when it involves anyone under 18 years of age, could leave you with some serious legal issues and or some possible time being incarcerated.
2007-07-09 22:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by ][)O[]DE[]D@N!C 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋