My hubby is having less sexual interest,he is 32 and me 24.I like to have that feeling,but he dont have.I want to know about normal married man.My husband not even masturbate too and even for 25 days not having sex.Is it normal to man?Pls need help from ,married men
2007-07-09 20:58:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Generally I'd say most men would probably want sex a few times a week, on average. But in your situation it could be alot of different reasons why he is not. Is he stressed at work? Just had a baby? Depressed? Other pressures? Problems?
I'd say its not normal, a healthy happy male would want to enjoy a regular sex life.
2007-07-09 21:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not all that unusual. You're a lot younger than he is and your drive is probably stronger than his. He might even be a little turned off if you come on a little too strong.
You can try seducing him, or doing something special to arouse his interest. It's also possible he may be distracted by work or it could even be a medical problem. He may also have low testosterone.
Part of the problem is that you see it as a problem and he probably doesn't. You guys need to find a happy medium. Maybe you need to ease up a little and try to draw him into sex more and make him think it's his idea.
I'm a long-time married guy, 66 years old, been married twice. Getting sexual interests to line up is difficult, maybe impossible. But it is possible to come to a happy medium.
Good luck and don't give up.
2007-07-10 04:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? Please just talk to him about it as he probably doesn't even realise it's an issue and that you feel that way. I was the same - he's probably just happy and comfortable and doesn't feel the need to have sex and express himself as he will be taking it for granted that "you know".
Get it out in the open, we did and although we did not agree to anything silly like sex every Friday we are both more sensitive to how we both feel and as a result are both happier.
2007-07-10 04:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by draddog 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like mild depression, which may be related to things going on in his life, or just plain chemical imbalances that cause low sex drive and depression. Talk to him and see if he will see a Dr.
2007-07-10 09:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gen rally it is too much time for not having sex, may be he had some problems in his sexual appetite or psycho problem.
for not masturbation it is not good for his health, he should shut the amount in his testicles at least every week.
try to seduce him may be his mind is busy and when see u something will wake up :)
2007-07-10 06:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear sexy lingerie and arouse him while he is doing something else (TV, reading etc...) If that doesnt help get creative and get really dirty (cool whip, PB etc...)
2007-07-12 14:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by skippgil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound normal
2007-07-12 20:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋