2007-07-09 20:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by BigErrn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men are not emotionally stupid. They just have different ways in expressing their feelings. Like sometimes when they have done something wrong, most won't apologise, but if you look closely, they actually find means to make it up to you.. It's his way of saying "sorry".
Women are made to be soft, sensitive, understanding, caring, loving, etc.. Enough for her to bear the weight of the family's burdens. We are different from Men, who are made to be strong, dependent, a tower of support, the leader of the family. He's there to keep the Women going.
Sometimes, they may be oblivious to the emotions that we women go through, but do you even understand their emotions better than they do ours? I guess not.
We were made to compliment each other. Where the woman is weak the man is strong and where the man is weak the woman is strong.
2007-07-10 04:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by deadbird 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yeah that s completely false. I know TONS of emotionally stupid women. People seem to confuse emotional, and emotionally intelligent. Also, a lot of men assume the emotionally "stupid" role because they are told they are. So they think that their intuition malfunctions, when really they re just different and misunderstood. Two emotionally intelligent people of opposite genders will more often find that they have a LOT in common. Which suggests that the old saying of "women are from Venus, men are from Mars", is a load of uneducated bullcrap.
2016-04-01 16:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Zander 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the way they are hard wired. For example: something that upsets you--you talk about it-think about it-get it off your chest. Men- they don't talk about it and few actually vent. Emotionally just dont think the way women do. I noticed some said they get better with age--trust me no they don't. Its a guy thing. Usually if you tell your guy-whats bother you he will try to fix it. That is what men do. If all you do is rant and rave then he doesnt pay attention. Face it some just don't catch on. Not all of them are the same whay but they all arent the sharpest tool in the shed.
2007-07-09 22:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by firefly06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the contrary they aint. men are not like women..men have been designed and socially trained to be less sensitive and emotional.they act to situations differently than women do.but they dont care any less, they respond less.they have been socialised to be leaders in relationships nad everything else, and showing emotions just doesnt fit in the picture.
for themost part, men are very needy, but they are not comfortable with showing their emotions.but they will do so if they feel secure that you wont judge them for being honest.
its a survival insticnt, tehy are created to be protectors and providers, so they develop in a way that ensures that they are strong. they can be very selfish, but they can change
its all about ego and machismo
2007-07-09 21:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dar' Lene Princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women have always done their homework first in the area of emotions and affairs of the heart. Thus, they logically conclude that all men (which is not a fair generalization) are emotionally stupid. It is also true that most women are borderline hysterical or neurotic.
2007-07-09 21:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because they're men. Parents raise boys to think emotion is bad. Think back to your days on the playground at school. The boy who fell down and cried because he cut his knee and it hurt was always called a sissy. But the girl who fell down and cut her knee and cried was always fussed over. That's how men learn they shouldn't express emotion. They're not emotionally stupid, they've just been taught that it's not okay to express feelings.
2007-07-09 21:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is their tendancy. they are treated as if they are emotionally very strong. their conditioning is such that they are the superior ones and all this emotional stuff is girly matter. that is the reason they are actually emotionally stupid.
2007-07-09 22:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by saumya s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we are men! That is the way we are wired up and geared out. Totally different from the way you girls are wired up and geared out.
There is a lot of truth to the cliches
Women are from Venus and men are from Mars.
Women are cats and men are dogs.
2007-07-09 21:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. This is proved men are 2 years behind on maturity level. Doesn't mean that there 2 years behind how smart they are.
2007-07-09 21:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because when their blood goes from their big head to their little head, they have no common sense and their whole body and thought process are controlled by the little head
2007-07-09 23:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋