After it was over (The emotional affair)...Did it change your feelings towards your spouse...did you love her more or less...did it change your relationship for the better or worse. After it was ended did you feel your homelife was even more unbearable than before, or did it make you even more grateful of your spouse....did it end your marriage or make it stronger?
2007-07-09 17:44:00 · 3 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's an interesting question, but I don't think too many will answer.
2007-07-09 19:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Laying Low- Not an Ivy Leaguer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at the risk of ruining my reputation as a Meatball ;). My experience has been exactly this- I was ashamed and didn't know how to address the situation. I became withdrawn from my spouse to the point that she felt like she was doing something wrong when the fact was I was the one that was in the wrong. I also became extremely suspicious of her because I wanted to prove my point that she wasn't actually worthy of honesty and respect. Fact is, she eventually grew tired of my attacks on her dignity and turned to another man. Only because I proved to her that I was the one that was unworthy.
I could write you a book, but there's part of the preface anyways. If I was ever offered a position in that saga again I would know well enough to stay the hell away from all of it. Regardless of which of the three positions I was offered.
Hope that helps. >:D<
2007-07-10 20:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I thought you and I were having an emotional affair
2007-07-11 17:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by maze_wanderer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋