if your daughter had a baby what would you do?

Answer 1

I would call Guiness and say a 2 yr old just had a kid.......where's my money.

Answer 2

I don't have a daughter, just four sons. But if one of them were having a baby there is not much you can do what is done is done. I would help them as much as possible, make sure they stay in school, etc.

They are your children after all and this is your grandchild we are talking about. I would be there for them, my love for my children is unconditional everyone makes mistakes. And this is a baby who needs a safe home, love, food, etc.

Some day I look forward to being a grandmother but I hope that I have taught my teenagers well about making good decisions, birth control, etc. I also properly supervise them. Things happen that can't be changed back, you must accept them and move on. It may not be what you would have chosen for them, but this is a baby we are talking about!

If your daughter is a teen and she is pregnant:
Don't kick your daughter out, support her, help her to get an education and prepare her for the world outside so she can be financially responsible some day for herself and the child. If adoption is an option consider it, if not do what you can but help her to be a responsible parent. For the sake of your relationship with your daughter, her child don't throw her out. She is your child, remember that a parent's job doesn't end when they make choices we wish they wouldn't. Your love should be unconditional.

We all do the best we can with our children, we may not always accept their choices or aren't always happy with their mistakes. But we all make mistakes, we just need to do the best we can. This is NOT the end of your daughters life. Many teen parents go onto lead successful lives. Your daughter can too, help her stay on track with her education and the road to being a responsible young adult and now parent.

Answer 3

hi there.
well in your qiestion (If my daughter Had a baby):

1. I would be happy.
-If and only if it was in a good timing. meaning if sha was in the right AGE, finished her studies, experienced to have a job, expirienced to help her parents financially or non-financially, tired being a teenager, ready to face motherhood, matured and stable, and if her husband is a good guy(responsible and got traits as my sister) that would be a wonderful scenario and as we know life would go and go for that stage. But if all / 75% of requirements is not satisfied....(#2)

2. I would be mad.. very MAD!!
...hmm.. "at First". My anger will lead to an end. Ofcoure she was still your sister. its not enough to be bad to your sister with only a Mistake. ofcoure, she didnt want it to happed eitherways. all a Good brother can do is to support your sister. you know what? by that time she really need a GREAT support. She needs you and your family. ANd always remember that loving family hepls one another.
...well i will also take some serious talks with her boyfriend. hmm..the problem is already there.. all i must do is take some good steps for it.

Answer 4

Depends. I have a daughter but shes to young to have babies shes only 3 1/2, but if she was married and had a baby I would be really happy ill be buying everything for the baby but if she was 15 and had a baby ill be upset because 15 its to young to have a baby but then ill get over it and ill be happy and ill go crazy to buy things for the baby. I will help her take care of the kid

Answer 5

I don't have a daughter but if I did, how I would react would depend on how old she was and her maturity.

If she was 17.5 or younger or immature - I would be mad at myself for not teaching her that she needs to be a adult before she has children.

If she was 18+, living on her own or with her signicificant other or married - then I would just be happy for her and enjoy being a grandma.

Answer 6

I would remind myself everyday that this little child did not choose to come into this crazy mixed up world, and that I will do everything I can to make certain this tiny person is safe and secure and well cared for as long as I am alive.

As for my daughter, much of how I would interact with her would depend upon her age and her stability and maturation as a person.

Answer 7

It would depend on the age and circumstances of my daughter.
Still at school - very unhappy - but would support her in any way I can to ensure that she completes her own education.
Finished school, unmarried, but in a relationship - would be concerned, but happy for her if this is what she wants.
Successful, married & comfortably wealthy - Would be ecstatic - again provided that this what she wants.

In all circumstances - I would support her as best and in anyway possible.

Answer 8

Hi Hector, My daughter is going to have a baby. Yes i am disappointed but i will help when she needs help. She is my daughter what else do you think i should do? That is why we have mothers. A Friend.
poppy1

Answer 9

First of all it would have to depend on how old my daughter is.. If I'm 50 and shes 30 then sure.. if I'm 39 and she's 14 I'm not sure what I'd do but it probably wouldn't be pretty.. lol.

Answer 10

how old is your daughter?

i would accept the child as my grandchild look there's nothing you can do about it but be there for her and support her. now you/ i may be upset with her but i would not go off on her you/i would handle the problem in a good manner without pushing my daughter in a hole where later on she will feel that she couldnt come to me with questions.

i would mainly be there for her every step of the way no matter what she may choose to do.

Answer 11

well i would probably would want her to have the baby i would not feel comfortable in helping her kill the baby and i would support her as much as i could. If she would not want to care for it i would help her put it up for adoption. or i would probably adopt the baby myself. just incase. If she was sixteen or younger i would be upset but i still would do the above. if she was unmarried and not an adult if she was an adult i could not have a say anyway. that would be her business i would try to advise her and help her as much as i could but not try to force her into doing anything bc she is grown up and living on her own.