If you found your man had been calling prostitutes, by phoning numbers on his phone bill, what would you think? If he swears it is just curiousity and he has never been to one, and you know he hasnt had the oppurtunity....would you believe him? Would you stay? Guys? Have you ever called them just to ask what they do?
2007-07-09 15:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because he hasn't had the opportunity, that you know of, if he decides he wants to spend more than phone time with them, he will.
If he is "just curious" then there are many books at the library to read about it.
I'd give him the benefit of the doubt for the first call - but any more after that - it becomes a problem.
I may not leave just for the one instance, but would sit with him and talk about how I feel this is unacceptable behavior - if it happened again - then I'd leave. He is opening the door for it to move forward and of all things, he's spending money on them!
2007-07-09 15:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yo ladies,
Your hubby is negotiating the prices, once the price is right, the place is booked, then the show begin.
He can swear whatever he wants, but as a guy myself, i swear that he is booking for pro-sex at the cheapest possible price.
Opportunity is self creation. Sex take only an hour the most, so many opportunity. Next time ask him to be more careful, keep those pro numbers out of the Handphone bills. And also dun bring Aids home ya.
2007-07-09 22:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy calls an escort, he's not calling to get a weather report. He's looking for some company.
Trust me i know these things, I'm a guy
It aint like he's doin a book report on prostitution.
2007-07-09 22:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by flack vest 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't be so naive here, you know he shouldn't be doing that and why would he pay all that money just to talk.If he wanted to talk all he had to do was get on the Internet there are so many chat rooms for people who just want to talk dirty and it's free.I understand you want to believe your husband we all do. You know what he has been doing you feel it in your heart regardless of what he tells you.My husband went as far as to swore on his mothers life and his dad and our only sons life that he has never cheated on me. Not only was he cheating on me at the time but had been doing so for over two 1/2 years prior to finding out. I said the very same thing as you,there is no way my husband can be cheating on me because i no where he is at all times.Well come to find out all the meeting that he told me he had there where no meeting and the times he told me a co-workers car broke down and he had to ride them to work and back home after. My husband took days off from work that i didn't no about,he always had himself covered just in case i would called him when he was out playing around. Don't ever think you know where he is at all times because you don't.Every woman thinks she knows her husband but I'm hear to tell you that no one knows everything about their mate sure you know what they want you to know and nothing more. I know i will get a thumbs down from the wives who think they know their husbands would never do that to them.How many times have you read on here that a wife had no idea that her husband has been cheating on her.
2007-07-09 23:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You CAN NEVER SAY NEVER. EPICALLY IF A PERSON IS CURIOUS. THEY WILL FIND OR MAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO PURSUE SEX WITH A PROSTITUTE. BY VIRTUE OF 'CALLING ALONE, KNOWING WHAT THEY ARE ABOUT, SAYS THAT YOU ARE CURIOUS TO VENTURE THERE...AND NO THEY WILL NEVER ADMIT IT TO THEIR SPOUSE...LET' S GET REAL HERE. THE GUY GOT CAUGHT AND MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE PURSUED IT FURTHER...WHETHER TO BELIEVE HIM IS YOUR DECISION. I AM INCLINED NOT TO. HE MAY NOT HAVE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE TIME THAT YOU KNOW ABOUT...IT DOES NOT MEAN HE DID NOT MAKE THE TIME THAT YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT. ANYWAY, ANY MAN WHO WOULD VENTURE OUT AND CALL WILL DO SO WITH MAKING AN APPOINTMENT TOO! SORRY GUY..YOU'RE GUILTY IN MY OPINION.
2007-07-09 22:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you talking about calling prostitutes or calling a phone sex line???
There is a difference..
2007-07-09 22:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tlfce 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I call my stock broker who takes my money with little services, is that the same? Maybe he wants to be current about the market.
2007-07-09 23:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in denial - understandably because this is such horrid behaviour.
Do your best to accept that your husband is a cheating bastard. Then go to your doctor and get checked out - who knows what kind of filth he has brought into your home.
2007-07-09 22:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by banana6464 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL...No. He is laying the groundwork for having se_ with a prostitute.
2007-07-09 22:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just forget about that. they are prositutes.you are his gf.so you should not compare the way that he has with prostitute and with you. forget it. just tell him not to do that next time.and he should tell you truth.
2007-07-09 22:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sinatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋