I really love him. And I want to give it to him. And I'm positive that I'm ready. Just want to know what you all think.
2007-07-09 15:06:11 · 27 answers · asked by susie_rav 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cheapass! Get him a DVD.
2007-07-09 15:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. Don't that because that is a cliche and kind of a silly idea when you think about it. You should give yourself away when you want too and when the time is right, NOT as a birthday gift. I think you should wait a bit longer because it sounds like you are still unsure since you asked a bunch of strangers on Y/A. Think about the future, what will happen to your relationship in 3 months, a year, etc. Remember true loves wait, so hold off until you are older. Don't do something you might regret later in life. Just buy him something else.
2007-07-09 22:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie... Life isnt about sex. How old are you? If your under the age of 18 then i suggest you wait. You dont even know what love is. Just because a man says he loves you doesn't mean that he actually mean it. Let me ask you a question.....
What happens when you and the boy do something and you go to school and everybody knows your business?
What happens when you and this boy do something and he disses you?
What happens if everyone calls you a h*e because you slept with that boy? People dont care if that was your first time you will still be a H*E..
What happens if you get pregnant?
What happens if you catch something like AIDS, or any other std?
Think about all those questions and ask yourself, how would you feel?
These girls dont understand out here that your virginity is the most sacred thing to have in this world. My cousin just turned 15 and when she was 13 and 14 she was making bets that she was going to loose her viginity and i had to ask her the same questions and i talked with her. Till this day she is still a virgin. Like i told her men respect women not h*es. Worry about your education and your future. Get good grades and all that will come to you, dont rush it. I know peer pressure is really something but forget what everone have to say about you because your a virgin (and they think that's a bad thing)...forget them because those will be the same people at your 10 year high school reunion broke and have about 100 kids and 99 baby mommas or baby daddy's and you will be this proud wealthy woman with a proud wealthy man on your arm.
think about it before you do it, you will not regret it.
2007-07-09 22:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only 15.
You may be positive you are ready, but I guarantee you that you will regret it after wards.
Don't be in such a hurry to jump into bed.
There is only one thing in this world that is yours, and will only be yours your whole life.
Your body.
And before you share it with someone, you need to be absolutely sure that he is the one that you trust completely, without reservation.
The one you know will never hurt you no matter what.
That is committed to you and only you.
Can you really honestly say that?
You being 15, and I am guessing he is a teenager too, can you really in your heart say that he is the one you will be with forever?
Understand also that once you have sex with him, if he doesn't break up with you because he got what he was after, he will want it all the time. Every day if possible.
He will want to have sex every time you are together.
Are you ready to do that?
It's not like giving him a puppy or something.
It belongs to you, and giving it away at 15 is VERY risky.
2007-07-09 22:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then your not sure. Your virginity is not a birthday present. You have to know your virginity is worth more then that. You can still love him and keep your virginity. Buy him a card and a game or something you'll be glad you did
2007-07-09 22:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not telling you save it for marriage because I realy think that's a fairy tale. You should however put a little more thought into this. By doing this your whole relationship with your bf will change.Are you ready for that? Also I think it's something that just happens and if you are "planning" this like an event in a date book you probably aren't ready. If you do go through with it please do use protection. Good luck......
2007-07-09 22:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by me me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Susie.
I've heard lots of people say doing that will scar you. If you do go ahead with it, it may seem nice for a short time but actually you will be hurting him and yourself. Hurting him (even if he doesn't realize it) is not a great b-day present.
It's great that you want to honor him! The best way would be to support him, encourage him, and maybe buy him a cool DVD or something that he collects (e.g. pocket knives...). Maybe even a game you two can play with friends, or a movie ticket... did I mention knives are cool?
2007-07-09 22:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WAIT TILL MARRIAGE.
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I would've felt like a COMPLETE DUMBA.S.S. if I actually had sex with my recent ex-boyfriend. He promised me the world... he said he was going to marry me. We were together for over a year. I felt that someday I was going to marry him and he was going to be the future husband I gave my virginity to. Something was holding me back though. So I followed my gut. Well, my ex cheated on me. I'm glad I waited... and I'm glad he's not out there holding my virginity with him. He was apparently never worth it.
My future husband will be the only one to hold my virginity.
2007-07-09 22:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
you dont necessarilly need to wait for marriage and all that like everyone else is telling you. I do however think that you should wait a little while. Although he might like this gift i would not recommend it. I think that you should give him something more substantial for his birthday. Something that shows that you love him but dont give him your body. Besides, we decided not to sacrifice virgins anymore.
2007-07-09 22:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a great way to end the relationship. If you want to give him a time-bomb to a delayed breakup and a broken heart then giving him your virginity is a great idea.
2007-07-09 22:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Curly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a very bad idea!! If it was your husband then I would have said that's GREAT!! But a Boyfriend, NONONONO!!! Save yourself for marriage, someone that you will spend the REST of your life with!!! Believe me you need to wait, for marriage.. In the end it will be worth it.. Besides, God is watching!!!
2007-07-10 00:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋