my love life is **** up because the man i love is in jail because we did wrong you me and my boyfriend jeremy mallette we break in a chruch and but we didn't steal noting but jeremy force me to do this now he is in jail because what happen to us he writes me and he saids he love me and still want with me forever and.. well i still love him no matter what i want him back in my life but i don't know what to do can anyone help me please?!
2007-07-09 14:54:02 · 9 answers · asked by nightblue258 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
leave him hes already shown he doesn't care about you by involving you in a crime next time crime might be worse and you to could end up in prison nobody is worth that move on your better than that don't waste your life waiting for a loser you will love again
2007-07-09 15:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by zalltar_knows 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I could give you a flippant answer Like "kick him to the curb" But I won't. This is only a suggestion take it or leave it. Appearently you both have made some unhealthy decisions and that has put you in dire straits. I know that criminal behavior just does not just happen. Something lead to this and if my assumtion is correct drug use may have had some effect in your decision making. First I would say pray if you have a belief in God. I am not pushing religion. But something happens when we pray, it helps us to stop and listen to what is good. I am sure you both did not stop at the church and prayed before you broke in. Second make ammends to the church it was hopefully a learning lesson to how to behave, do not make less of the problem by saying "But we did not steal anything." Admit to your self that this was just plain stupid. Third I would say find someone you repect that has thier life in order who may have pulled themselves out of the mire, and observe and watch what they do and when you struggle ask. We all need support and and could use guidence. Fourthly change and turn from the behavior that keeps you beaten down make goals to better your life. Remember that discipline is never for getting what the prize is and work hard at it. I believe if you do these things youre boyfriend will follow you lead but if he don't you will come to realize that he is unhealthy for you and you will naturally move from him without alot of pain. I wish you the best and and never set your self up for failer buy saying right and wrong. Use the term healthy and unhealthy on your decision making. God bless you in your walk forward in your life.
2007-07-17 11:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. i wouldn't suggest breaking him outta jail! He can't be in there for long because it wasn't a major crime. Just wait it out. When he gets out though I think that you both with have alot to talk about and some serious things to discuss. You want him to have learned from his mistakes and grow up some. And you can't let yourself get involved with something like that again. If he really loves you then he will let go of the childish crimes and be with you and be ther person that you need him to be. Be patient for now. Decide what to do about the relationship when it is fair for both of you. You didn't dump him when he did the crime so you can't really dump him while he does the time.
Oh and by the way honey... I am sorry but no one forced you into that church unless it was kidnapping or at gunpoint. Think about that too. If he forced you by gunpoint then you need to get as far away from his as possible. If that not how it happened then you need to take a little accountablilty for your actions.
2007-07-16 20:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by peace_by_moonlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love life??? What about your freedom being at stake. O.K. let me get this straight.... you and Jeremy break into a church (he forces you) and you all don't steal anything. You just break in? What was the deal with that? I don't think that anyone can force you to do something like that - you may have been pressured and felt like you wanted to do it to make him happy or to act like a bad a@@ but whatever, you did it. Get rid of him and do some soul searching.... you need to get a better group of friends and certainly a better boy friend.
2007-07-14 21:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by livingadream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart how old are you and your friend. you have to look at this as if you two do get together again can you live with the fact that he may go back to jail for something or next time it could be both of you.
sometime you may love someone but you have to turn them loose to be better in the long run. and yes it will hurt awhile. i don't know you i just feel the you can do better for yourself.
2007-07-14 11:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by happylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a chance to break free and start a new life now if you wish to blow this second Chance that you have been given to find a man that won't break into a church.. And that will love you just as much then I say that it is your choice to make.... You either want to live free or be locked up eventually seems like a bad choice to me... It seems to me that he had a choice and he made a very bad decision and he tried to drag you down with him so why would you want something like that back into your life is beyond me.................................... That is not love that is insanity
2007-07-09 23:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone who is doing something you don't agree with, why are you with them? You say he loves you, but if he truly loved you, he would not force you to do anything you did not want to do...especially break into a CHURCH!
2007-07-14 01:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by goddesshonibea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
^Kick him to the curb before you end up in jail too.
2007-07-10 21:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres not much you can do now, but only time will tell,you just have to go with the flow of it all
2007-07-09 22:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by ‡ЭЭЭ‡ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋