I just got pregnet what do I do?

Question

I went to the doctor for a check up today. My mom stayed in the car and the doctor said to me " Have you ever had sex?" I said No but then he said " You are pregnet." Then I told him I did because I didn't want to lie to a doctor. And yes I did because my boyfriend made me. I just had my period and I am only 13 years old! What do I do? I can't handle a baby at 13 years old. I really didn't know if I had sex it will cause me to be pregnet at a young age. What do I do I am only 13

My mom knows and my boyfriend just pushed me on the bed. My mom is really mad at me.

Answer 1

Well first off You shouldn't be talking to guys that make you do things you don't want to. your a young lady and should respect yourself enough to say something. anyway your now pregnant what to do, first off your moms mad what ever, did you think she would be happy? her anger isn't going away anytime soon so get over that, your boyfriend well sounds like a thirteen year old boy (stupid) . Your now going to be a mommy so your options are having it, adoption, or sad to say abortion. you could have an open adoption you obviously know that your not ready to have a baby and that's a start of you becoming responsible kudos to you...The only thing i can tell you is don't let any one influence you to do something you don't want to. this baby is depending on only you not your boyfriend or your mom. everyone will have their opinions but remember this is your decision no one will make it for you. Baby's are a blessing I hope you can make a decision you can live with it wont be easy but sweetie thats life. good luck babe.

Answer 2

Honey, I know this is scary. I want you to know that although this is a shock to you, God has a plan for that baby.

Check out the websites about your baby. The first two are informative at standtrue.com and the third is where you can get help.

Thirteen is young to be a mother, the best thing you can do is to give the child up for adoption. There's a couple somewhere who would do anything to have a child but for some reason cannot have one naturally for themselves. You can give them that awesome gift.

The worst thing you can do is have an abortion. That may seem like a quick fix, but having to deal with a lifetime of guilt is far worse than nine months of carrying a child. There are several girls at my school pregnant. It's sad they got in that situation, but God bless them for not having an abortion.

You'll be alright, sweet thing. I'll keep you in my prayers.

Answer 3

well, first did he do an internal exam? before people start saying it, they CAN tell from an internal youre pregnant; aside from that, the only way for a doctor to tell is by a test; but if he did do an internal, they can tell by how your cervix feels and your uterus; which is all normal routine for a check. anyway; hon, you need to tell your mom. or another trusted adult who can help you tell her. then you need to decide with her whats best for YOU; dont let her (or anyone else for that matter) talk you into doing something youre not comfortable with. i hate to say it, but you really should have know anytime you have unprotected sex, its a possibility to get preggo; if you guys used protection, good job and its awesome you guys did! that was very responsible, but unfortunately, didnt work. honestly, in the end, the decision of what to do will be upto you, but youre gonna need your mom at a time like this. i hope you guys are cloae, cause youll really need her, no matter what youre decision is! good luck to you!! and big hugs!! if you have trouble telling her; contact a local pregnancy center (like planned parenthood or the like) and they can help you with options and ways to tell her whats going on. they also offer ultrasounds upto so many weeks, they can help you determine when you are due and go over your options with more detail and information for you as well, if youre unsure what to do.

*edit* i hope your getting your kicks off. i just read (and replied btw) to your other posts about living with your boyfriend, and finding out you were pregnant 4 days ago. also the one about wanting beast implants... all posted within an hour of this one. please.

Answer 4

Have you talked to your mom about this? I think you need to. She may be upset at first but will get over it. You need to tell her that you are scared and really need her support and discuss the options for you and the baby...leaving abortion out of the discussion. Then you need more education on sex and why teen pregnancy should be avoided. Let me know how things go. And good luck.
Edit: sounds like your boyfriend is an a** and give your mom a little time to settle down, but keep telling her that you are really needing her guidence and support through this.

Answer 5

Press charges on your so called boyfriend and missy I hate to be mean, but if you are mature enough to have sex and to fall pregnant, I would say you have to be mature enough to have a baby. If you don't want this baby don't kill it, just give it to someone who does want the baby. I was infertile for eight years and I've just found out I was pregnant and I can tell you if you can't raise that baby then there are women who would love that baby so much and give it a great home. Good Luck.

Answer 6

First of all, you need to tell your mom so that she can help you with the decision that you are going to have to make. You have already made one decision, and that was to realize that you are too young to handle a baby. Go to planned parenthood or the local health department for advice. They will help you with whatever your decision may be. There are plenty of good families looking to adopt. Good luck.

Answer 7

Oh wow. i am so sorry this happened to you. since you are so young the first thing to do would be to tell a trusted and understanding family member. then go to a doctor and maybe they can give you a shot or remove the egg so you wont have to have your baby. you probably dont since you are really young. so try this and good luck. i really hope everything is ok. But handle it with a trusting and understanding family member and your doctor. everything will be ok. life goes on. I hope everything will be ok!!! GOOD LUCK again.

Answer 8

Wow, you're having a busy busy week for a 13 yr old. Your boyfriends parents died in a car crash, his brother over dosed, and he stormed out of the house on you and was gone all night, not to forget you just found out you are pregnant. Good luck with all that.

Answer 9

I'd say that if the doctor told you that you are pregnant then you are!!! You need to speak to your mum or an adult that you can trust - maybe your guidance councillor or somebody like that. This will not go away and you need to do something ASAP so that all of your options are open!! All the best!

Answer 10

oh wow sweetie! plz tell your mom she may be upset but she will be even more hurt if you keep this from her I know your young but you have to think sometime girl! Don't cry all day and loose your mind just take it slow think about things and if nothing else tell your mom, she trusts you if she didn't follow you in the doctor's office