why is it when a man comes in late from work, he is accuse of cheating?what can he do to stop this?
2007-07-09 13:45:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, obviously not all men are.
What do you do to stop being accused? Simply say that you're working overtime, that you're not cheating, that you don't appreciate being accused of doing something you're not doing when you're working hard, and ignore any further accusations.
If the accusations continue, then you might want to consider that she's actually cheating. Otherwise she wouldn't be so freaked out.
Unless of course you ARE cheating. Then you'll have some explaining to do.
2007-07-09 13:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was married and every time I stayed after 20 minutes talking to pals in the parking lot after work I would come home and be accused of cheating.I would go to breakfast(I worked nights)with friends and I would never hear the end of the accusations.This went on for 14 years.
It would have been longer but I caught my wife as the one cheating.I think alot of it has to do with the other persons insecurities.So they manifest that onto others and think the worse of their partner.
There are plenty of reasons to give cause for someone to suspect their partner of cheating but if their isn't trust it isn't much of a relationship.
2007-07-09 20:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by boobooloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can tell his wife that he isnt cheating and that if u didnt want have sex when u came home,it was because u had a hard day at work.if she keeps on doing it,u to should get a divorce.its not right to accuse her husband of doing that.the only way she could tell if u were cheating on her was if u were calling some other woman almost all the time and u took alot of business trips.and u dont,do u.well tell her that and if she still accuses u then its time for u 2 to have a little time to urselfs.maybe u arent pleasing her like u used to.maybe thats y she thinks u are cheating.
2007-07-09 20:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nairobi Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never just about coming home late from work it's other things that go along with it that would lead us to the conclusion that he has been cheating. Any woman that thinks her husband has been cheating on her solely on the bases of him coming home late is not only jealous but is totally paranoid.
2007-07-09 20:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Tough ride. Either the woman's really insecure, or she's got great intuition. Depends on the job. If it's a 9 to 5'er, he's got no excuse there. What he can do to stop it is to let her call him at work after 5....
2007-07-09 20:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Guinness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us women are sensitive. Look around you Man since I can't remember have always been the cheaters. Put it to you this way if you say you are working late I expected to see it in that pay stub and if I don't know your wareabouts and then when u get home u get offended if I ask you where you are and you give me attitude your cheating! in the girls rule book Rule # 675 if offended when asked where he is at ?he is cheating!
2007-07-09 20:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by adri012980 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Golden Rule:
Women are never meant to be understood, only loved. haha
okok now that we got that out of the way, i think us women are just psycho and maybe a little insecure and afraid to lose the ones we love. but i promise you -- we only act crazy and accuse you of things bc we just really love you.
how to stop it:
sit your lady down and tell her that you would never cheat on her. that without trust, there is no relationship and its only right for her to trust you.
good luck!
2007-07-09 20:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by burpzalot862 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because so many men in the past have used the 'working late' excuse. There is nothing you can do to reverse those decades of damage your forefathers have caused. It helps to keep open communication though. Phone your girl and let her know you are running late and if she phones or texts while you are out answer your phone or text straight back.
2007-07-09 20:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
In my experience... If you already cheated on her or ruined her trust she is going to always think you are up to no good. I dont think there is anyone to fix a trust issue. Just try to show her your not cheating i guess..
2007-07-09 20:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She should be accusing you of skipping English class.
2007-07-09 20:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋