sure would hope so ,for the womans sake
2007-07-09 12:46:55
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answered by caffsans 7
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You know, this is a good question and I am sure that every man would probably provide you with a different response. I have been in a relationship for 7 years and I asked my fiance' his thoughts on the subject. He told me that from his point of view, men don't usually look at love/sex with the same kind of emotion that women experience A man who has his emotional act together and is wild about you WILL WANT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. It will bring him pleasure. Just as hurting you will make him feel like a jerk and he'll try to figure out how to stop doing it! He'll also want you to feel as special and valued as you make him feel. He'll be willing to take risks for your love. He'll want to share himself and his life with you. And he'll let the world know that you are his.
When a man loves you like this, you feel it. On the other hand, what does it look like when a man isn't showing you the love? or his emotion? Here's a list of possibilities:
He doesn't treat you like you're a top priority in his life
He's nice to you mainly when it's convenient for him (like right before sex)
He checks out on you emotionally for long periods of time, and acts like you're crazy and/or needy for wondering why
He's openly critical of fundamental things about you that you can't change
He seems to enjoy your company, but it's as though he hasn't decided that you're the special woman in his life
He shuts you out of big parts of his real world and inner life
He keeps telling you that he's not good relationship material, but he doesn't discourage you from sleeping with him
He takes no emotional risks for you, but doesn't object when you take emotional risks for him
He gets irritated with the vulnerability you feel in the relationship
He rewards you for being "strong" and/or "understanding" when he does things that he knows hurt you
And...
He keeps sleeping with other women.
These are just some of the things my man shared with me and I tend to agree. Some men have been reared in homes that open displays of love and emotion were not shown and they grow up not knowing 'how' to....that's where women come in. We have to teach men by our own example.
Women - aren't we WONDERFUL????
2007-07-09 12:55:53
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answered by THE SINGER 7
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some guys do. Observe your guy, is he emotional even when its not love or sex yet? d:
2007-07-09 12:47:30
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answered by Alam Ko Iyan 7
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with a special girl im willing to love unconditionally
2007-07-09 13:14:40
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answered by gufffaa88 2
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i wish, he shows no emotion at all. he makes no faces or sounds so i dont know......
2007-07-09 13:43:31
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answered by Anonymous
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With a certain woman I do.
2007-07-09 12:46:56
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answered by Anonymous
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of course they do
2007-07-09 12:55:36
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answered by gibsonpro70 2
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No, we hit it and quit it.
2007-07-09 12:46:42
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answered by Anonymous
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