Please HELP ME!!!!!!?

Question

there is this girl in my grade who thinks that she is my like best friend (and i honestly dislike her ALOT!!) she calls practically everyday (i am not exaggerating!!) to ask if i can come over and sometimes i will and most times i have to make up lies that i cant go and i hate lying. how can i make her stop calling me everyday?? - because it really bothers me and i need some space!!! I no its good to be liked and stuff but she just keeps calling and its annoying! :P

- thanks for all your help!! - please no mean answers

Answer 1

Well me and one of my friends used to be in these situations all the time. When I felt like we spent too much time together and I wanted some space from her I just told her that I think we should take a break from our friendship and she agreed with me. If you don't like her calling you everyday and don't like her that much than just tell her the truth and make she understands why. Break it to her in a nice way so she will take it better. Doing it hard will just break her even more. So just do that and see how it works.

Answer 2

thats what u get for being super nice...i know the feeling, went through it myself. u could always get a number change. but really u do need to tell her to please stop calling u everyday....tell her ur parents r getting annoyed or something. tell her u will call her when u can do something or u could just give the girl a day and hang with her and them maybe she will get off ur back. i guess i cant say too much because it depends on how this girl is? do u dislike her because shes annoying or is she snotty and mean? maybe she dont have many friends and whats why she is bothering u so much....there has 2 be a good reason for it.

Answer 3

First, have you tried hanging out with her? Why do you dislike her so much?

You are going to have to little by little, bit by bit, move her a little farther away from you. Tell her you are busy every time, yes, it means lying. Eventually, she will catch on. Try your best not to be mean. Obviously, she looks to you because you are some type of role model to her. But the bottom line is, I think you could see some of those same qualities in her too. I hated that age, because if a person wasn't popular by the standard, you were looked down upon for talking to them by your friends. Good luck, and please don't hurt her feelings.

Answer 4

Honestly, you're going to have to be straight foward. Tell her that when you two are together, you just aren't feeling a strong friend connection and maybe you should cool off for a little bit. Tell her you need space and if she really is a friend, she will respect your wishes. Be firm, but gentle. If you don't do anything about it, you'll just bottle it up and one day you will blow up on her and she will resent you for quite some time and nobody likes to feel that way.

Answer 5

I had that problem when I was in the 4th grade. The girl would not leave me alone and I went to her house once and it was weird. Her parents got mad because we ate pickles...weird, i know! Um, just tell her that you have another friend that she may like hanging out with and give her the phone #. I know it can be frusterating but just talk to her about your situation. It will be rough but if she is really annoying you then you should do something about it.

Answer 6

you just need to be honest w/ her. you're "leading" her on by going over to her house. tell her you need some space or that you don't feel the friendship is really working or you're into other things right now. if you dislike her ALOT as you've said, why did you start going to her house anyway or chat w/ her on the phone? you should have nipped it in the bud before it started. i know you probably don't wanna hurt her feelings, but it's inevitable.

Answer 7

just be honest with her and tell her that you need some breathing room and you just don't feel like hanging out you don't have to make it personal just tell her that you don't want to hang and tell her how you feel in a nice way tell her sort of in a sweet way say something like I really enjoy hanging out with you but I think I just need to be alone for now and tell her that your mom doesn't want you to get so many calls I know it really stinks to lie but I think that if you just sugar coat it a little and sort of put it off on your mom (I'm sure mom will understand) she'll get the message and you won't hurt her feelings. good luck =)

Answer 8

Der r a few ways u can deal wit her...
Get a new number / stop answering her calls
Tell her the truth out straight so she'll understand
Get her a boyfriend
Convince sum1 else 2 hang around wit her
Tell her ur gay and want her babies (it works!!)
or my personal fave, Be more clingy and needy den she is... Annoy her so much dat she'll want nuthin 2 do wit u

Answer 9

You can try making yourself seem totally unappealing to her by offering to do stuff that you KNOW she wouldn't want to do.
You can also try the same thing the first girl said. Also, try keeping busy and don't be home.
If you've never been to her house, try going once, and see if that'll get it out of her system so maybe she'll stop pestering you.

Answer 10

Why don't you tell her the truth then, i mean that you dislike her or you don't want her to be your best friend because this girl also wasting her time by thinking you are a good friend. so tell her and let her find another friend.