Yes, I have been.
Give yourself time to grieve. It's ok. Really. The "might have beens" are the hardest part. Keep busy with exercise: take longs walks. Cry some. Talk with friends. In time, get back to regular activities.
He was a jerk, Honey. I've known my share of them. We're better off alone than with someone who treats us badly.
Take care. Message me for support.
2007-07-09 12:09:06
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answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7
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Yes. He wasn't a jerk and neither was I. I knew he was my soul mate from the moment we met. He was my whole heart. We had a long distance relationship, and poor communication. Plus, I have a bad habit of pushing people away when they try to get too close.
He's been gone for about 7 years now. He's blissfully happy without me. And I'm truly happy for him that he has found happiness. I just wish he could have found it with me.
Something tells me I'm still not quite over it. But I just live life, and find a reason to laugh everyday.
2007-07-09 10:44:37
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answered by spicy_salsa69 5
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You will somehow hold a place for them in your heart but realize that brokeness of heart lasts as long as you let it..Do not let this hold you back from finding true love...The quicker you get your eyes off of the past and start thinking of how special you really are and it's not so much as your loss but His. The faster the recovery..Get focus..Now for once you can conscentrate on what is best for you..Join the YMCA and get the best looking Bod. Spend the next month on doing what pleases you and for the guy who thinks you weren't worthy..Prove Him wrong..Because you are worthy and special and you will find the right MAN who will treat you as such and you will be able to look back as see how better you are now...
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answered by Anonymous
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Hearts don't really get broken, but relationships can be difficult. Keep yourself busy with the things that you enjoy doing the most and in time you will find someone who is more compatible with you because you'll be meeting people who share the same interests that you do.
2007-07-09 10:34:15
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answered by golden sephiroth 5
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Went I went into the service during WW2, my gf promised that she would wait for me..I began to notice that her letters were getting less frequent and much shorter and impersonal I finally got a "Dear John" letter, telling me that she married one of my best friends. It happened about 6 weeks before the end of WW2. It took me a long time to get over it.
2007-07-09 10:35:58
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answered by Alfie333 7
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yes 2 months ago... I know the guy still loves me but he is being a jerk
2007-07-09 10:58:36
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answered by TINKER B 3
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Unfortunately yes. It was a high school crush and I feel like he was the one that got away. Looking at my life now, I see that I really can't see myself with him. But I still get that feeling when I see him.
2007-07-09 10:38:28
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answered by missmezone87 3
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Yes, once. I thought she was the 'one'. It hurt at first, but we must carry ourselves high and with pride and honor. Besides, if I hadn't gone out with her, then I would of never been able to find the girl I am dating now.
2007-07-09 10:34:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes...I think that everyone has had their heart broken at least once. You'll be fine, just slash his tires...one per week after the 3rd one the insurance won't cover it! LOL
that's what I hear anyway...
2007-07-09 10:36:43
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answered by S_C 3
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No, I haven't but if that guy was such a jerk, then forget him and move on. He is not worth another of your precious thoughts.
2007-07-09 10:34:13
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answered by eddie_schaap 4
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