I like two girls... which one should i choose?

Question

I'm looking for a serious relationship... like... one that wont end in two weeks... and here are how they are...
One is a ballet girl... really nice, sweet, but she doesnt get out much. She never had a boyfriend before and she never had a guy like her before. shes really... shy, not sharing her feelings too much... but shes really really nice. She shares her feelings with me a lot. and she lives about 20 minutes drive away from me.
The other girl is a judo national champion almost in my judo club. Shes nice, sweet, funny, pretty... and all that stuff. She plays guitar, she likes good rock musik... and I see her all the time at judo, whereas i dont see the ballet girl much at all. I live about an hour drive from her. Shes had plenty of boyfriends... and theres something else... she was my first girlfriend ever a while back.
Or should i just do the thing ive been doing for the past year and didnt care for relationships and didnt care when girls checked me out?

Answer 1

Try using a different category for asking this question, like RELATIONSHIPS.

Answer 2

Be sure to Follow your heart..But here is some good advice, which ever girl you choose, remember her parents will be a part of your life and if you cannot get along with them..it can cause major problems down the road if itshould come to marriage... But, on the other hand you know victoria really well and you hardly know alexandria.. don't rush into or out of anything toooooo fast...Time will answer lots of questions....GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

i would go for the one that is in your heart. look deep before u make any hasty decisions.

but i would go for the ballet girl.. i mean if u already dated the judo girl and u guys broke up... what is the point of going down that same path, u should try another person. It seems that the ballet girl likes u too and if she is good enough to share her feelings with u , she might be the one !


Xoxo

Lollie

Answer 4

Were you happy dating the judo girl? If so, that's a plus. If not, you should think about why before you even consider dating her again. If she dumped you, I suggest finding someone else.

Otherwise, I would go for whichever girl seems to like you more.

Answer 5

Since the "ballet" girl really opens up to you... & since you've already dated the "judo champ"... then I'd say, go with the "Ballet girl"
She seems to really dig you! & She's closer!!

Besides, someone who has such a cute picture for their profile needs a "sweet" girl!! Great user name too! :)

Answer 6

I use the saying--Never go back, Always go foward. Keep in mind that she is an ex for a reason. I suggest the new girl, she may the freak in the closet.Just kidding! lol:) Seriously I would go for the girl who is closer to you and is more innocent. She just may be the one girl you always wish you had given a shot ten years from now.

Answer 7

Which of these ladies do you have the most in common with? Who do you have the better time when you're near? Which would you most like to be there with and for? Until you can answer these questions, i don't think you know either of them enough to say that she should be your girlfriend. Its not wise to approach a situation like this for the sake of being in a serious relationship... you should have a connection with one of them... enough to validate her being your girlfriend.

Answer 8

I would have to say the shy girl too...she would be less likely to dump you for someone else, compaired to the girl who already broke up with you before...just my opinion though...only you can make the decision.

Answer 9

Go for the girl you like the best.
When you are around one of the girls, do you think of the other? If so, go with that girl.
DONT go with the girl whom you consider a best friend. Trust me, it won't work out for long.

Answer 10

Judo kick!

Answer 11

I say go with the ballet girl. The dancer, they are always so graceful. =) Good luck =)