i think im going crazy. i think im a lesbian, no i KNOW im lesbian, but im scared to tell. im sooo paranoid about ppl finding out. i always dream about girls, getting intimate. i want to sleep with them. its just that i feel guilt from God that im wrong for this. how do i stop this? it makes me want to kill myself!
2007-07-09 09:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The best way to stop it would be to tell people. It will feel good to get it out and you won't have to feel guilty for hiding who you were born to be from people.
2007-07-09 09:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is time for you to do your research....body and soul. Seek out books, read, and seek out people....of both your religion and of lesbianism. Once you get all the facts, you can decide the fate of YOU. This is a decision only you can make. Do not trust in anything now from the past....please search anew. Parental guidance and childhood religious classes give you a BASE a FOUNDATION to build upon. The rest of the structure is up according to your learning and experiences. I am of a belief that there is nothing in your life that you cannot change with effort, hard work, time and a bit of luck. Suicide is never an answer, please do not consider it. There is nothing in your life you cannot change. Good luck.
2007-07-09 17:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda went through that. Except, though I was gay, that wasn't my religious issue. I was depressed and wanted to die but was afraid of what would happen.
It just took some soul searching. You need to find your own path.
In my experience, the whole "gays are against god" thing is mostly hype. Look in the bible. The soddom and gommorah thing was about pagan orgies, not homosexuality(though that was probably included). The other clear mention is right next to bans on eating shellfish(they didn't know about red tide. They just knew that sometimes people would die from shellfish), eating pig(Trichinosis-a disease that comes from pigs, isn't an issue if you cook the meat/don't feed pigs garbage), and wearing clothing with two fabrics(?). CHristians do not follow this section anymore.
The last mention is unclear/unlikely.
2007-07-09 16:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Blearg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go ahead and find out about your lesbian sexuality . This will not be an easy step , but you must fight thru the guilt , and the disaproval of others until you meet and accept tour true self . Sincerely , I wish you a journey that will lead you to joy .
2007-07-09 19:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shudnt feel guilt... you do alot of other things that may not "please " god. But no reason for u to feel suicidal.. he made you special that way ..its definately not ur fault.. or else you wud be able to quit..like drinking or smoking or sumthing .. but u cant stop ur feelings.. no matter what other religious people tell you dont feel guilty no one is perfect ...and no one is free of sin (although i dont consider it a sin) you cant stop it .. tell youre friends even if you are scared hopefully they understnad n if they dont it will probably just take some time for them to get used to it and accept you .. dont give up
2007-07-09 16:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ivet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong for feeling the way you feel. We all have feelings. Yours are such that you feel you have a same sex attraction. Awesome! You should celebrate you fro being you! Talk to a trust friend, share your feelings with someone you can confide in. I know I am a stranger to you, but I would be happy to talk to you about those feelings.
I had them too and still do.
2007-07-09 16:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Talon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best answer I can give is "If the heart and mind don't inter twine then its a waste of time" translation follow you heart and mind if you know your a lesbian then all the men in the world is not going to change you so be your self is the only way to be NOW as far as God is concerned he/she has made us ALL in his image regardless if we are black,white,brown,green blue with green dots on our butts God looks past all of that he loves us even when we don't love ourselves so don't worry about God he still and always will love you hope this helped
2007-07-09 16:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by keltic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be nervous about others finding out as well, but well...I said to myself that I can't go on living a lie! So I finally came out after high school...I figured, people will love me for me, not for my lifestyle....don't sweat, many have been and are in your shoes girl...it has to come out...eventually...and if you want to live a happy life!
2007-07-09 17:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblypop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush anything! Be comfortable with yourself before you do anything...
2007-07-09 16:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you are doing is right, then you wouldn't feel this way. You're ashamed because you know what you are feeling is wrong.
Seek help.
2007-07-09 16:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋